gorgeous girls
gorgeous babe
events
event management
event planlægning
event log
event billeter
event kalender
event service
event piger
smukke event piger
mit event
hold et event
event gruppe
event folk
event mennesker
top event
sommer event
vinter event
online event
firma event
opkommende event
koncept event
event fabrik
event guide
event model
net event
jule event
house event
trance event
model event
event maker
ferie event
fremtids event
fremtidens events
halloween event
vip event
forførelse event
event for dig
fest event
fredag den 5. juni 2009
free the world
En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas. En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas. En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas. En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas. gorgeous babe
events
event planlægning En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas. En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas. En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas.
event log En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas. En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas. En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas.
event billeter
event kalender En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas.
event service
event piger
En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas.
www.cocaresolight.net
mit event
En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas.
hold et event
event gruppe
En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas.
event folk
En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas.
event mennesker
top event
sommer event
En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas.
vinter event
En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas.
online event
firma event
opkommende event
koncept event
event fabrik
En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas.
event guide
event model
net event
jule event
house event
trance event
model event
En mega tekst uden sammenligning er aldrig set før, jorden ryster under os og pigerne, flyver omkring. Musiken pumper, hjertet banker ud af takt på grund af den voldsomme bas.
event maker
ferie event
fremtids event
fremtidens events
halloween event
vip event
forførelse event
event for dig
fest event
onsdag den 3. juni 2009
what to ask on a date ?
Well great work on scoring that date! It must have a little nerve-wrecking and scary but hell, you just asked this amazing girl out and you can't wait for tonight anymore. Everything is all prepared to the tiniest detail and you've been raving about it all day. But before you zoom out the door, do you have any idea what to talk about with this girl during your date? Here are some great questions to ask a girl to save yourself from a little dead air. Have a great night ahead!
• The basics: books, music, movies. You can never with this trio. Everybody has at least one favorite book, song and movie. Talk about your favorite authors, singers, movie scenes, and then hint that there's a good film coming up next week you're dying to see, or perhaps a concert you'd like to attend or party that you'd want to crash, and you'd love if she'd come along. Another date coming on the way...
• Favorites. The list for this one is endless. Color, food, hang-out, subject, holiday, vacation spot, sport, TV show, actor, rock band, pet, drink, athlete, season, day of week, month of the year, --- you can talk about at least a million. Take time to breath though, and also appreciate your food, music and ambience.
• Hobbies and interests. A great subject to get to know each other deeper. You can always point out your similarities and differences with the kind of activities that you do. Maybe you're both into painting and that a great opening for you for your second date: ask her to come with you visit the art gallery.
Save yourself a bad date and be sensitive with your companion. Watch out for body language and flirting signals so you can both get excited while getting to know each. A date is supposed to be special and meaningful and it's always best for you to come prepared. However, loosen up, relax, be confident and enjoy yourself throughout.
The funny test for your girlfriend
If you are involved with someone, you may want to take a boyfriend girlfriend test to see just how much the two of you have in common. You may be surprised at just how little you know about your sweetie. Here are 5 questions to ask them:
1.) What is your favorite thing to do with me? Asking them this will help you identify whether you share the same interests and hobbies. If you like fishing and they like going to the movies, you may have to rethink your plans the next time you are together. Learning the answer to this will help you find compromise in your relationship when it comes to planning time together.
2.) What is my birthday? This is an important question because it helps you know how important you are to them. People tend to remember the special dates of their loved ones. Keep in mind that if you haven't been dating long, they may not know your special day, but the boyfriend girlfriend test is a good time for them to learn.
3.) Do you feel comfortable coming to me about any and everything? If they say that they do not feel comfortable, you should reflect on whether or not you make yourself open and available to them. If you have done this, it may be a personal problem that they have with opening up and this boyfriend girlfriend test will give you a chance to help them overcome that.
4.) Do you completely trust me on every level? This is probably the most important question on this boyfriend girlfriend test. Trust is absolutely the biggest part of any relationship and if they don't trust you then that is something that needs to be worked out immediately. Find out whether or not their mistrust has any basis on reality or if it is their own insecurity. Either way it needs to be talked about openly and not ignored.
5.) How far do you want this relationship to go? Both of you need to be aware of how the other feels about the future of your relationship. People tend to be more open when taking a boyfriend girlfriend test than they are at other times, so now is the time to get honest answers about where this relationship is headed. If you have different expectations then you are better off knowing now rather than finding out later and getting hurt. This is another issue that can be easily worked through if you are proactive in dealing with it.
Would you like to find out more on the importance of questions and knowing your partner before making a commitment?Do you just want a huge list of questions that may determine your happiness?Are you in a relationship and want to find out more about your partner?
Be a good listener
This article is not just for single guys. It's incredibly useful for those who are married or in a relationship. You know how women always say they wish men were better listeners? Well, here's the answer to that problem! Follow these four easy steps and be the good listener all women love!
Step 1: Clear Your Head
In order to be a good listener, you have to clear your head. Stop thinking about work, school, bills, and really listen to what they have to say. I especially recommend this for guys who are getting to know a woman as this will tell you a lot about her personality and her quality. Remember when you clear your head you are ready to LISTEN, not just hear.
Step 2: Show Genuine Interest
Try to ask questions or follow up questions about the story or topic. Women love that because it shows that not only are you really listening, but you're interested enough to want to clarify and know more about what they're talking about. This scores big points!
Step 3: Offer Help or Advice
Ask her if she needs any help with the situation or ask her if she'd like your opinion or advice. Remember to ask first! Don't just spout out words of wisdom as they may be unwelcome. Sometimes women just need someone to listen, not necessarily solve the problem. The fact that you asked shows that you respect that she can do this on her own, plus it shows you do care about everything she just said.
Step 4: Reassure and Go over the Main Points
Whether advice is requested or not, go over the main points with her again. Like a re-cap or asking follow up questions. Then summarize it and reassure her that it will be okay, and that she's in the right. This is quite important if you're just getting to know a girl. You don't want her to see you as someone that may oppose her in the future. Show her your support!
If you've ever wondered why women can spend hours with each other on the phone, it's not because they have endless things to talk about. Okay, it partly is, but a big part of girl to girl phone time requires listening. Being a good listener is something women love and many people value. You score a lot of points by being a good listener because any woman would love to be able to confide in and talk about anything with the guy she likes.
flirt and be funny :)
Attracting women is every guy's dream. Well, okay, not everyone. Some people live the dream, other's gave up on dreaming, and still others don't prefer females. However, if you're like most guys, you want women to find you attractive. So what's the secret? How can some people walk up to a lady, say a few things in her ear, and instantly the as she smiles, the girl's eyes glaze over, and you can tell the woman is attracted to him. What exactly is there secret?
In some ways, they don't have a secret, other then they have been persistent in the past, until they found out what works. But what do they do now that they didn't do before?
Most men need to appear to be well groomed and healthy, if they want a women to at least give them a second look. A shave, a haircut, and having a good modern style of clothes is a good start. Some men are better off just shaving there head rather than attempting hair growth products, or comb-over hair styles. Others have a thick head of hair and need to keep it trimmed up. You should talk with a hair stylist and ask them the latest hair styles, and what would work best for you, and check magazines before attempting.
Physical looks is just a start. You can be groomed and well kept but if you trip over yourself and fall on your face, it's not going to impress anyone. You need to practice moving deliberately, with intention. Think, then act with purpose. A women finds guys who move smoothly with a certain charm to be attractive. You need to practice balance, and that means flexibility, fitness and strength. Why not try an exercise and/or Yoga class, there's plenty of women you can meet there, and practice being smooth.
Looks can only take you so far, you need to be able to talk to women. Practice being flirtatious and flirting with women, and be an attractive person, and women will be attracted to you. Once you have found and attracted women, you will be able to use your knowledge to attract women and use it to eventually get a girlfriend.
Confidence is very important. Many people believe women have a 6th sense to pick up confidence. If you approach her looking nervous, she may feel the same way, and will be uncomfortable, game over before it even starts. If on the other hand, you appear confident, you would be surprised at how easy it can be to get a woman attracted to you.
It's easy to be confident if you know what you are doing. It is important that you have the knowledge of a dating guru if you want the confidence of one.
how to start the conversation
Starting a conversation is difficult for most people. I often get asked by clients how they can start conversations. What advice do I give them? Here's some key pointers to get your next conversation smoothly underway:
1) Smile. I know it's simple, but Dale Carnegie in How to Win Friends and Influence People recommended smiling because of its power.
When a stranger approaches us, our minds use nonverbal signals like facial expressions to analyze if the person is a threat. A smile communicates you are a friendly and safe person to talk to. You're not a creepy stalker (I hope!) so squeeze out a smile. Practice this nonverbal expression on your next approach to make the person happy you came up to them to start a conversation.
2) Ask open-ended questions. If you don't already know what an open-ended question is, it elicits a response beyond yes or no. It puts bait on the ground for any shy creature to devour. Close-ended questions on the other hand, can be answered with a yes or no, and kill a conversation quicker than it began.
You can ask good open-ended questions by thinking about the room your conversational partner has for a response. Begin your questions with "What" and you'll have the person talking with little effort. Examples include: "What brings you to this event?" "What's the meaning behind that necklace?" and "What do you like about this party so far?"
3) Be funny. Don't become a comedian, but a little humor is magic to any conversation. Humor quickly builds rapport with people. It connects people together.
Humor is very objective, but it helps to know that most humor in conversations is not funny. Notice what you and other people laugh at to see most stuff isn't even funny. How can this be?
We laugh in conversation mostly due to a release of tension. Humor isn't an emotion, but a release of emotion. Look at what you joke over, learn from it, then replicate it.
4) Make people comfortable. Your smile, open-ended questions, and humor will make people comfortable, but use this fourth tip to put all three pieces of advice on steroids. Going into a start of a conversation with the intent to make people comfortable brings with you a sense of friendliness people pick up on. It's hard to describe, but do what you can to release people's discomfort.
If a person seems irritated when you approach them, there's no point ignoring it. Use it as a conversation starter Comment on it and ask if there's something you can do for the person.
Here's one simple example: "Hey. I noticed you were annoyed about the store being sold out of chicken. I was after some as well. What's some good substitutes?" Merely addressing the issue can make it vanish instead of having the problem simmer throughout the conversation because you failed to face it at the beginning.
If you begin with a smile, ask an open-ended question, say something funny, and make people comfortable, you'll be surprised at the effect your social skills will have on people. It will seem like magic.
1) Smile. I know it's simple, but Dale Carnegie in How to Win Friends and Influence People recommended smiling because of its power.
When a stranger approaches us, our minds use nonverbal signals like facial expressions to analyze if the person is a threat. A smile communicates you are a friendly and safe person to talk to. You're not a creepy stalker (I hope!) so squeeze out a smile. Practice this nonverbal expression on your next approach to make the person happy you came up to them to start a conversation.
2) Ask open-ended questions. If you don't already know what an open-ended question is, it elicits a response beyond yes or no. It puts bait on the ground for any shy creature to devour. Close-ended questions on the other hand, can be answered with a yes or no, and kill a conversation quicker than it began.
You can ask good open-ended questions by thinking about the room your conversational partner has for a response. Begin your questions with "What" and you'll have the person talking with little effort. Examples include: "What brings you to this event?" "What's the meaning behind that necklace?" and "What do you like about this party so far?"
3) Be funny. Don't become a comedian, but a little humor is magic to any conversation. Humor quickly builds rapport with people. It connects people together.
Humor is very objective, but it helps to know that most humor in conversations is not funny. Notice what you and other people laugh at to see most stuff isn't even funny. How can this be?
We laugh in conversation mostly due to a release of tension. Humor isn't an emotion, but a release of emotion. Look at what you joke over, learn from it, then replicate it.
4) Make people comfortable. Your smile, open-ended questions, and humor will make people comfortable, but use this fourth tip to put all three pieces of advice on steroids. Going into a start of a conversation with the intent to make people comfortable brings with you a sense of friendliness people pick up on. It's hard to describe, but do what you can to release people's discomfort.
If a person seems irritated when you approach them, there's no point ignoring it. Use it as a conversation starter Comment on it and ask if there's something you can do for the person.
Here's one simple example: "Hey. I noticed you were annoyed about the store being sold out of chicken. I was after some as well. What's some good substitutes?" Merely addressing the issue can make it vanish instead of having the problem simmer throughout the conversation because you failed to face it at the beginning.
If you begin with a smile, ask an open-ended question, say something funny, and make people comfortable, you'll be surprised at the effect your social skills will have on people. It will seem like magic.
20 question game :)
What are 20 questions to get to know someone? Are you looking for a way to get to know someone inside and out but aren't sure what to ask? The following are 20 questions to get to know someone and their innermost thoughts without having to call on a psychic!
1.) Where do you see yourself 5 years from now?
2.) How happy are you with your appearance?
3.) What is the one thing you wish you could change about yourself?
4.) What is the one thing you like most about yourself?
5.) What is the one thing you regret the most in your life?
6.) Do you feel you had a happy childhood?
7.) Were you deprived or abused in any way as a child?
8.) How do you feel about your mother?
9.) How do you feel about your father?
10.) How do you feel about your parent's relationship?
11.) Do you feel closer to your mother or father?
12.) Do you still talk to any of your childhood friends?
13.) How many close friends do you have?
14.) Do you like to gossip?
15.) How do you feel about church and religion?
16.) What are your political views?
17.) How do you feel about children?
18.) Where is your favorite place to go?
19.) What do you like to do on weekends and/or in your spare time?
20.) Do you consider yourself outgoing?
Some of these 20 questions to get to know someone may seem simple. But all of them will give you deep insight into the personality of the one you are asking. For example, in the first question, "Where do you see yourself 5 years from now?", the answer will not only reveal the long term goals of this person, but it will also let you know more about who they are as a person. If they have big goals and dreams then they are the type of person who is pro-active and likes to make things happen. If they have small plans or none at all, then they are a complacent person and most likely will be in the same position 5 years from now as they are now.
And if they don't know what they want to do then they are probably still trying to find themselves and figure out what life is all about. They need more time before they will be ready to commit to anything. Asking these 20 questions to get to know someone will give you the answers you need.
1.) Where do you see yourself 5 years from now?
2.) How happy are you with your appearance?
3.) What is the one thing you wish you could change about yourself?
4.) What is the one thing you like most about yourself?
5.) What is the one thing you regret the most in your life?
6.) Do you feel you had a happy childhood?
7.) Were you deprived or abused in any way as a child?
8.) How do you feel about your mother?
9.) How do you feel about your father?
10.) How do you feel about your parent's relationship?
11.) Do you feel closer to your mother or father?
12.) Do you still talk to any of your childhood friends?
13.) How many close friends do you have?
14.) Do you like to gossip?
15.) How do you feel about church and religion?
16.) What are your political views?
17.) How do you feel about children?
18.) Where is your favorite place to go?
19.) What do you like to do on weekends and/or in your spare time?
20.) Do you consider yourself outgoing?
Some of these 20 questions to get to know someone may seem simple. But all of them will give you deep insight into the personality of the one you are asking. For example, in the first question, "Where do you see yourself 5 years from now?", the answer will not only reveal the long term goals of this person, but it will also let you know more about who they are as a person. If they have big goals and dreams then they are the type of person who is pro-active and likes to make things happen. If they have small plans or none at all, then they are a complacent person and most likely will be in the same position 5 years from now as they are now.
And if they don't know what they want to do then they are probably still trying to find themselves and figure out what life is all about. They need more time before they will be ready to commit to anything. Asking these 20 questions to get to know someone will give you the answers you need.
9 secrets
There are a number of things that you should never tell a man if you would like to have a good dating relationship with him. Let us take a look at them so that you can avoid them.
1. Being the first to say "I love you." You may say this as a way of making him say that he loves you too, but you should not try to push him to say something he is not yet prepared for. You will remain in an awkward position when he does not do it.
2. If he promised to call but didn't, don't confront him and ask why he did not call. You will be basically accusing him of not caring for you, and it is more likely that you will make him turn defensive.
3. When you go out on a date, do not press him to tell you when you should expect to see him once more. If he is really interested, he will get in touch. On the other hand, if he has no interest, then you should not keep your life on hold for him.
4. In case he does not keep his promise to see you, you should not ask him where he had been. The hidden question is really whether he was out with another girl, which will just show your fear and insecurity.
5. In case he had gone out with another woman, you will simply put both of you in an uncomfortable position when you ask him whether he went to bed with her. Even if he did, he is not doing it now.
6. Whether you have just started going out with a guy or you have dated for some time, do not press him with the question as to where your relationship is going. If the relationship is promising, you will simply know this from his actions.
7. If you have something you would like to discuss with him, bring it up casually at an appropriate time. When you tell him that you would like to have a talk, he will automatically become defensive as he does not expect the conversation to be enjoyable. You just need to choose your time well.
8. However much he has hurt you, going around stating how you have him won't solve the issue. In fact, when you maintain your cool even during a breakup, you will win his admiration. But throwing temper tantrums will only push him further away from you.
9. In case you suspect that he has been up to no good, telling him that you don't trust him won't make him change. Instead, he will just get more careful, and you won't be able to get the much needed evidence.
Why doesn't he call? is a very extensive guide about what women typically have about calling men in their lives, calling guys in dating. Most women sabotage their relationship potential not knowing how to handle the phone calls with a man they date. Find out why your man stops calling you for each situation by visiting How to make a man call.
1. Being the first to say "I love you." You may say this as a way of making him say that he loves you too, but you should not try to push him to say something he is not yet prepared for. You will remain in an awkward position when he does not do it.
2. If he promised to call but didn't, don't confront him and ask why he did not call. You will be basically accusing him of not caring for you, and it is more likely that you will make him turn defensive.
3. When you go out on a date, do not press him to tell you when you should expect to see him once more. If he is really interested, he will get in touch. On the other hand, if he has no interest, then you should not keep your life on hold for him.
4. In case he does not keep his promise to see you, you should not ask him where he had been. The hidden question is really whether he was out with another girl, which will just show your fear and insecurity.
5. In case he had gone out with another woman, you will simply put both of you in an uncomfortable position when you ask him whether he went to bed with her. Even if he did, he is not doing it now.
6. Whether you have just started going out with a guy or you have dated for some time, do not press him with the question as to where your relationship is going. If the relationship is promising, you will simply know this from his actions.
7. If you have something you would like to discuss with him, bring it up casually at an appropriate time. When you tell him that you would like to have a talk, he will automatically become defensive as he does not expect the conversation to be enjoyable. You just need to choose your time well.
8. However much he has hurt you, going around stating how you have him won't solve the issue. In fact, when you maintain your cool even during a breakup, you will win his admiration. But throwing temper tantrums will only push him further away from you.
9. In case you suspect that he has been up to no good, telling him that you don't trust him won't make him change. Instead, he will just get more careful, and you won't be able to get the much needed evidence.
Why doesn't he call? is a very extensive guide about what women typically have about calling men in their lives, calling guys in dating. Most women sabotage their relationship potential not knowing how to handle the phone calls with a man they date. Find out why your man stops calling you for each situation by visiting How to make a man call.
Pick up your phone you fucking idiot!
Some of the most frustrating experiences we sometimes go through come about due to the failure of our boyfriends to answer their phones. When you call your guy repeatedly and he does not pick up the phone, you will start getting concerned about what could be happening. It is therefore helpful if you have some idea on how you can handle such a situation.
One of the first things you need to understand is the fact that men tend to picture and use the phone in a different way from us. You should therefore have some knowledge as to how the guys view the phone. Having a sound grasp of the issues mentioned in this article will help you to have a more stable relationship with your man.
He does not keep his promise to call
This situation is more common than you may imagine. Many women complain that they do not understand what came over their boyfriends all over a sudden. He used to be very much in love, and would call even several times in a day. At some point, he gave his word that he would call. You waited expectantly for him to call as usual. But he didn't call. In order to find out what happened, you called him instead. He didn't answer. You called again and again. What could be happening?
In such situations, we tend to worry ourselves stiff. The problem is that we are often quite impatient, and would like our boyfriends to call at the exact minutes they promised. However, things do not always work out that smoothly. Don't wear yourself out. There are very many genuine reasons that may have prevented your guy from calling. Here are just a few examples.
1. He may have gotten so busy that he hardly had enough time to make a call. Perhaps his busy schedule made him forget the call.
2. He may have had unexpected family commitments. For instance, may be some of his relatives came for an impromptu visit.
3. He may have gotten ill.
Basically, when your guy says that he will call, just wait for him to keep his promise. Don't start imagining things.
Are you wasting all your life on a guy who says he'd call you but never calls back? Learn how to make him call and recognize if he is interested in you OR he is not. You can find all the answers you need by visiting why doesn't he call?
One of the first things you need to understand is the fact that men tend to picture and use the phone in a different way from us. You should therefore have some knowledge as to how the guys view the phone. Having a sound grasp of the issues mentioned in this article will help you to have a more stable relationship with your man.
He does not keep his promise to call
This situation is more common than you may imagine. Many women complain that they do not understand what came over their boyfriends all over a sudden. He used to be very much in love, and would call even several times in a day. At some point, he gave his word that he would call. You waited expectantly for him to call as usual. But he didn't call. In order to find out what happened, you called him instead. He didn't answer. You called again and again. What could be happening?
In such situations, we tend to worry ourselves stiff. The problem is that we are often quite impatient, and would like our boyfriends to call at the exact minutes they promised. However, things do not always work out that smoothly. Don't wear yourself out. There are very many genuine reasons that may have prevented your guy from calling. Here are just a few examples.
1. He may have gotten so busy that he hardly had enough time to make a call. Perhaps his busy schedule made him forget the call.
2. He may have had unexpected family commitments. For instance, may be some of his relatives came for an impromptu visit.
3. He may have gotten ill.
Basically, when your guy says that he will call, just wait for him to keep his promise. Don't start imagining things.
Are you wasting all your life on a guy who says he'd call you but never calls back? Learn how to make him call and recognize if he is interested in you OR he is not. You can find all the answers you need by visiting why doesn't he call?
dealing with your love?
One of the most widely accepted misconception about people is that we are creature of logic. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Dale Carnegie said it best when he said, "When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures bustling with prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity."
It is a fact that we have to treat most people as if they were petulant three years old toddlers. When dealing with people, kid gloves are the order of the day. But that's not all. Not only do we have to wear kid gloves but is has to be done in a way that will not appear to be condescending. A rather tall order.
This delicate approach is best accomplished by using the you-you attitude. That is, the person that we are addressing has to be given the number one priority. That person has to be the central pivot of the of the interaction. It has to be done in a way that the major and most important player in the communication is the person we are communicating with.
The reason that is has to be done that way is that we have all the control over our own actions but we have very little control over others. We can adapt to the situation but it is next to impossible to control someone else's behavior.
There are times when we must disagree with others. It can be done and it can be done effectively so long as we start by agreeing with some part of the other person's views. That is an essential element if we do not want our interlocutor to go on the defensive and start justifying his position.
Someone said, "A world without euphemism would be a barbaric one." If we want to get along with people harmoniously, sometimes the truth has to be slightly colored. This by no way implies that a person should lie but tact and diplomacy never hurt anyone and has saved many situations.
Above all, we should never fall into the trap set by someone who claims that he wants the "honest truth." That person feels to be on safe ground and is ready an eager for a spirited debate. The ideal way to deal with this situation is to agree to tell the truth but then proceed with caution. That person does not want the truth. That person wants to hear what he or she wants to hear.
There are also times when we have to reprimand someone. It can be done without creating any ill will by using the sandwich method. That is, the reprimand has to be sandwiched between two "slices" of compliments. First, we give a compliment, then we formulate the reprimand and close the conversation with another compliment. The admonition will be just as effective and no resentment will be created.
When dealing with people it must always be kept in mind that the least offense can create a scar that will last for a lifetime. Decades down the line, people may have forgotten almost everything about you but they will not have forgotten the hurt that you may have caused them. Such is human nature.
It must always be kept in mind that, the stronger the person, the more giving that person will be and the weaker a person is, the more demanding that person will be. The secret in dealing with people is to take the strong person's stance. The strong person can meet the weaker one at his level without feeling diminished in the process. That's a luxury that a weaker person cannot afford.
It is a fact that we have to treat most people as if they were petulant three years old toddlers. When dealing with people, kid gloves are the order of the day. But that's not all. Not only do we have to wear kid gloves but is has to be done in a way that will not appear to be condescending. A rather tall order.
This delicate approach is best accomplished by using the you-you attitude. That is, the person that we are addressing has to be given the number one priority. That person has to be the central pivot of the of the interaction. It has to be done in a way that the major and most important player in the communication is the person we are communicating with.
The reason that is has to be done that way is that we have all the control over our own actions but we have very little control over others. We can adapt to the situation but it is next to impossible to control someone else's behavior.
There are times when we must disagree with others. It can be done and it can be done effectively so long as we start by agreeing with some part of the other person's views. That is an essential element if we do not want our interlocutor to go on the defensive and start justifying his position.
Someone said, "A world without euphemism would be a barbaric one." If we want to get along with people harmoniously, sometimes the truth has to be slightly colored. This by no way implies that a person should lie but tact and diplomacy never hurt anyone and has saved many situations.
Above all, we should never fall into the trap set by someone who claims that he wants the "honest truth." That person feels to be on safe ground and is ready an eager for a spirited debate. The ideal way to deal with this situation is to agree to tell the truth but then proceed with caution. That person does not want the truth. That person wants to hear what he or she wants to hear.
There are also times when we have to reprimand someone. It can be done without creating any ill will by using the sandwich method. That is, the reprimand has to be sandwiched between two "slices" of compliments. First, we give a compliment, then we formulate the reprimand and close the conversation with another compliment. The admonition will be just as effective and no resentment will be created.
When dealing with people it must always be kept in mind that the least offense can create a scar that will last for a lifetime. Decades down the line, people may have forgotten almost everything about you but they will not have forgotten the hurt that you may have caused them. Such is human nature.
It must always be kept in mind that, the stronger the person, the more giving that person will be and the weaker a person is, the more demanding that person will be. The secret in dealing with people is to take the strong person's stance. The strong person can meet the weaker one at his level without feeling diminished in the process. That's a luxury that a weaker person cannot afford.
how to act when you are in love?
In as much as guys try to hide their feelings from girls, the feelings are always discovered by those who understand how guys act when they are in love. The question is how does a boy act when he likes a girl?
When a guy likes you the first thing he thinks is how to communicate that love to you. So, he begins to act out his feelings in different ways.
If he likes you, he'll find out things about you. He would prefer to surprise you by letting you know those things he knows about you. For instance, he would surprise you by calling you by your name even though you have not met officially. This is to make the relationship informal and quicken the friendship.
Furthermore, he expresses his feelings through his looks. He delights in looking at you and does everything possible to have your presence or be in your presence.
If he succeeds in initiating a conversation with you, he would double the chances by the day and make it a point of duty to keep in touch with you.
He would find out the types of color you like and present them to you in gifts. A guy who likes you would keep your memorable days. He already desires you to be part of his life, so, he indicates that by keeping your important dates. For instance, he'll present you with a lovely gift on your birthday.
As soon as he gets the green light from you, he'll guard you jealously and would not want any guy to pose a threat to your relationship.
He would look for an opportunity to take you out on a date. He would like you to spend your dates in places where you would be 100% available to each other.
You would be so surprised when you meet his friends, your name is already circulated and you are well known and admired.
Knowing how a boy would act if he likes you is mostly explained by relationship experts. But there is one that stands out with listening ears and has credibility for his lasting solutions.
When a guy likes you the first thing he thinks is how to communicate that love to you. So, he begins to act out his feelings in different ways.
If he likes you, he'll find out things about you. He would prefer to surprise you by letting you know those things he knows about you. For instance, he would surprise you by calling you by your name even though you have not met officially. This is to make the relationship informal and quicken the friendship.
Furthermore, he expresses his feelings through his looks. He delights in looking at you and does everything possible to have your presence or be in your presence.
If he succeeds in initiating a conversation with you, he would double the chances by the day and make it a point of duty to keep in touch with you.
He would find out the types of color you like and present them to you in gifts. A guy who likes you would keep your memorable days. He already desires you to be part of his life, so, he indicates that by keeping your important dates. For instance, he'll present you with a lovely gift on your birthday.
As soon as he gets the green light from you, he'll guard you jealously and would not want any guy to pose a threat to your relationship.
He would look for an opportunity to take you out on a date. He would like you to spend your dates in places where you would be 100% available to each other.
You would be so surprised when you meet his friends, your name is already circulated and you are well known and admired.
Knowing how a boy would act if he likes you is mostly explained by relationship experts. But there is one that stands out with listening ears and has credibility for his lasting solutions.
communicate like a rockstar alphamale
One glossed over issue, that is so important, is part of flirting where you listen. Last article was an examination of what not to say; this article will look at what to DO when not saying anything at all!
It's vitally important to be a good listener. You show interest in her, and it allows you time to determine what is happening non verbally. You'll be able to watch and see if things are going in the right direction.
It's not all about shutting up and letting the other person talk, in other words. You are responsible for providing some feedback to them with verbal and non verbal signals alike.
The main thing these signals show is that you are paying attention and are interested. If you can't show these, don't be surprised if the conversation shuts down and the woman closes off.
So what are good signals of feedback? Nodding, smiling, showing responsive facial expressions, and leaning into the person (correctly timed), all play a part of it. All convey interest and attention.
Verbally, well timed expressions help, normally ones of agreement. Saying "uh-huh" quickly, or "ah", will display interest when timed right.
This goes for talking to other men as well. Basic signals like these are effective in all manner of interaction, including job interviews. Being as powerful as they are, it's worth noting their importance.
Another great tool is paraphrasing. The idea is to summarize what they said back to them. "So you were out of gas in the middle of nowhere? How'd you get out of that?" It's particularly powerful when used on a shy woman.
One mistake to avoid while doing this: make sure the question isn't a closed ended one, but rather open ended. If the person is asked for an explanation, then it's open ended. It keeps the flow going. If she can say yes or no, then it's closed ended. Not what you want.
A good way to remember this is to think of the words Who, What, When, Where, How, and Why. They are the interrogative words that, when used, require more than yes or no to be used in response.
So what we need to know, when it comes to listening, is this: we are trying to appear that we are paying attention and interested. It's normally a good idea if you are regardless ( I tend not to waste my time if I'm not interested).
As well, with your nonverbal and verbal responses, you propel the conversation along, and sending the messages to her that she's worth talking to.
The key again is practice. Be AWARE of her while flirting. Listen to what she says. Pay attention to the content. And TRY to take an active interest in her!
Make an effort to do the above. Most girls will reciprocate. If you are working with the other methods described in this series, you'll probably gain rapport, and that's a HUGE step in making your flirting successful!
It's vitally important to be a good listener. You show interest in her, and it allows you time to determine what is happening non verbally. You'll be able to watch and see if things are going in the right direction.
It's not all about shutting up and letting the other person talk, in other words. You are responsible for providing some feedback to them with verbal and non verbal signals alike.
The main thing these signals show is that you are paying attention and are interested. If you can't show these, don't be surprised if the conversation shuts down and the woman closes off.
So what are good signals of feedback? Nodding, smiling, showing responsive facial expressions, and leaning into the person (correctly timed), all play a part of it. All convey interest and attention.
Verbally, well timed expressions help, normally ones of agreement. Saying "uh-huh" quickly, or "ah", will display interest when timed right.
This goes for talking to other men as well. Basic signals like these are effective in all manner of interaction, including job interviews. Being as powerful as they are, it's worth noting their importance.
Another great tool is paraphrasing. The idea is to summarize what they said back to them. "So you were out of gas in the middle of nowhere? How'd you get out of that?" It's particularly powerful when used on a shy woman.
One mistake to avoid while doing this: make sure the question isn't a closed ended one, but rather open ended. If the person is asked for an explanation, then it's open ended. It keeps the flow going. If she can say yes or no, then it's closed ended. Not what you want.
A good way to remember this is to think of the words Who, What, When, Where, How, and Why. They are the interrogative words that, when used, require more than yes or no to be used in response.
So what we need to know, when it comes to listening, is this: we are trying to appear that we are paying attention and interested. It's normally a good idea if you are regardless ( I tend not to waste my time if I'm not interested).
As well, with your nonverbal and verbal responses, you propel the conversation along, and sending the messages to her that she's worth talking to.
The key again is practice. Be AWARE of her while flirting. Listen to what she says. Pay attention to the content. And TRY to take an active interest in her!
Make an effort to do the above. Most girls will reciprocate. If you are working with the other methods described in this series, you'll probably gain rapport, and that's a HUGE step in making your flirting successful!
flirting
So you have her talking - well done! Now you have to learn to take turns speaking - it's an important part of your flirting arsenal. Here's an example of why this is important to know: you are speaking with a nice young woman, and it appears to be going well. You keep talking, and then her eyes wander. Soon, the conversation just winds down, and she's gone. So what happened there? It could be a bunch of things, but perhaps the most common mistake that men (and women) make is lack of recognizing the tempo of conversation, and that they need to take turns. The vocal inflection of another person will indicate WHEN it is time to talk.
Too often, people who are frightened of speaking, when finally given the chance, will tend to blabber like there is no tomorrow. Understandably so - it's NICE to have someone paying attention to you. But true rapport and conversation isn't like this. And after time, a blabbermouth will eventually run people off. In a recent article, I wrote about vocal signals, one of them being the change in intonation when finishing a sentence, indicating it's time for the other person to speak.
You MUST learn these signals. Look at it from the outside - have you ever met a person with the speaking eloquence of Oscar Wilde, witty and sharp tongued, yet was completely despised because NO ONE could get a word in edge wise? Another problematic personality, like the one above, is from the person who doesn't put in any effort to the conversation at all. No feedback, and no input of their own. Don't be this guy; it's exhausting and people will actively avoid you. Being either of the above is a death sentence for your social standing in a large group. Take care not to become one of them!
So how do we avoid this? By allotting equal time for each person. You should speak the same amount of time as the other person. Most of the time, a pause is a sufficient signal. But it isn't always the case. In the earlier articles I wrote about in the nonverbal section, there are some nonverbal cues that will allow us to see when it's time. The first is eye contact - the woman might glance away while finishing the sentence. As well, there is the matter of rising and falling intonation - an intonation change will indicate, as well, that they are finished speaking. Listen also for a drop in volume at the end of the sentence - it's the final clue.
So we have these cues: length of their turn, pause, intonation at the end of the sentence, eyes turning away at the end of the sentence, and a drop of volume. If any of these happen in combination, it's usually a good sign that it is your turn to speak. When you speak with others, try to make the turns equal length. You'll be surprised at the effect - you'll be considered a great person to talk to! Soon, I'll write about the actual WHAT of conversations - what you should actually SAY when speaking to another person!
Too often, people who are frightened of speaking, when finally given the chance, will tend to blabber like there is no tomorrow. Understandably so - it's NICE to have someone paying attention to you. But true rapport and conversation isn't like this. And after time, a blabbermouth will eventually run people off. In a recent article, I wrote about vocal signals, one of them being the change in intonation when finishing a sentence, indicating it's time for the other person to speak.
You MUST learn these signals. Look at it from the outside - have you ever met a person with the speaking eloquence of Oscar Wilde, witty and sharp tongued, yet was completely despised because NO ONE could get a word in edge wise? Another problematic personality, like the one above, is from the person who doesn't put in any effort to the conversation at all. No feedback, and no input of their own. Don't be this guy; it's exhausting and people will actively avoid you. Being either of the above is a death sentence for your social standing in a large group. Take care not to become one of them!
So how do we avoid this? By allotting equal time for each person. You should speak the same amount of time as the other person. Most of the time, a pause is a sufficient signal. But it isn't always the case. In the earlier articles I wrote about in the nonverbal section, there are some nonverbal cues that will allow us to see when it's time. The first is eye contact - the woman might glance away while finishing the sentence. As well, there is the matter of rising and falling intonation - an intonation change will indicate, as well, that they are finished speaking. Listen also for a drop in volume at the end of the sentence - it's the final clue.
So we have these cues: length of their turn, pause, intonation at the end of the sentence, eyes turning away at the end of the sentence, and a drop of volume. If any of these happen in combination, it's usually a good sign that it is your turn to speak. When you speak with others, try to make the turns equal length. You'll be surprised at the effect - you'll be considered a great person to talk to! Soon, I'll write about the actual WHAT of conversations - what you should actually SAY when speaking to another person!
communication for nerds
When learning to flirt, there are several basics that can put you light years ahead of most. In the last article, I wrote about the importance of turn taking. In this one, I'll write about the actual nature of the content that you talk about.
There are rules that you'll need to know. And as it were, most men don't know them! Knowing them is important, as you'll avoid much a lot of pain that goes into failed flirting.
It's not so much the content of what you are saying, but rather the delivery and it's tone. For example if you drone on negatively about a certain subject, you are bound to eventually drive someone off.
It's a simple mistake, and understandable. We live in a culture that celebrates cynicism to an extent, so people tend to embrace it. Overall, a little goes a long way though. Avoid that in your conversations, as you'll bore her and she'll get fed up with you.
Other ways to make a conversation boring are as follows:
Preoccupation with yourself. If you talk about yourself constantly, and show no interest in others (particularly her!), you are definitely going to have a short run.
Superficiality - talking only about the banal, telling hackneyed jokes or stories. This reeks of shallowness, just like the stories.
Being tedious - Talking too slowly, pausing too long, and taking too long to make a point. This is common, as people try to appear calm and smooth in their interactions. Remember, there is always a balance.
Too passive - just refusing to take part and leaving the conversation on the other person.
Lacking in enthusiasm or interest - this would include being monotone, showing no emotion, and refusing to make eye contact. This will quickly ruin your chances.
Being too serious or somber - There are times you NEED to be serious, but you need to be able to shake that off and clown around sometimes. If you don't do it, your conversation might abruptly end.
Too excited - you jump all over the place in the conversation, get sidetracked from the original point too easily. This will drive the other person nuts, and it's generally a good idea to learn to reign this in.
So what IS a good thing to say? Aside from avoiding the above issues, there are a few things you can do. The first is to keep on the topic, and allow for turn taking. The second is to do your part in gauging the conversation, keep a positive attitude, and make it fun! Being fun is a huge part, and you can talk about almost anything!
Another thing to look at - compliments. They can be good, and are usually most welcome. However, you CAN go overboard. If you do, the situation is recoverable though.
If you do pay a compliment, be cautious of the nature of it. You can convey attraction without having to resort to vulgar or intrusive compliments. If you know the person, you can judge it better, but be aware of this issue.
Keeping it simple, and saying something such as "You look gorgeous", can go a long way. Going further than this can cause offense or embarrassment. While that is not always the case, it's a gambit that might not work out. Make sure to look her in the eyes while doing this - looking anywhere else could be potentially bad.
As well, while commenting on a woman's appearance, remember that there is a time and place for everything. One of the biggest mistakes you can make is the timing your compliments poorly, as well as an other flirtatious overture.
Always be aware of the flirtatious overtures you are making. Sometimes it is obvious - you'd want to avoid saying something to someone who just lost a loved one, for example. But there are other times, when it's not so obvious.
A good rule of thumb is to think about it in neutral terms. In other words, would you compliment a man in the situation? Would it seem appropriate? The same would apply if it was a woman. Keep it within those boundaries, and you'll do fine.
While compliments are just a small part, they are important, and when used right will propel the attraction, instead of destroying it.
Pay attention to yourself during a conversation. Take notes too, if you can. Look for the rules mentioned above, and make sure to correct yourself after it happens. Eventually you'll smooth things out.
Coming up soon, I'll show you how listening is another important part of your conversational skills,
There are rules that you'll need to know. And as it were, most men don't know them! Knowing them is important, as you'll avoid much a lot of pain that goes into failed flirting.
It's not so much the content of what you are saying, but rather the delivery and it's tone. For example if you drone on negatively about a certain subject, you are bound to eventually drive someone off.
It's a simple mistake, and understandable. We live in a culture that celebrates cynicism to an extent, so people tend to embrace it. Overall, a little goes a long way though. Avoid that in your conversations, as you'll bore her and she'll get fed up with you.
Other ways to make a conversation boring are as follows:
Preoccupation with yourself. If you talk about yourself constantly, and show no interest in others (particularly her!), you are definitely going to have a short run.
Superficiality - talking only about the banal, telling hackneyed jokes or stories. This reeks of shallowness, just like the stories.
Being tedious - Talking too slowly, pausing too long, and taking too long to make a point. This is common, as people try to appear calm and smooth in their interactions. Remember, there is always a balance.
Too passive - just refusing to take part and leaving the conversation on the other person.
Lacking in enthusiasm or interest - this would include being monotone, showing no emotion, and refusing to make eye contact. This will quickly ruin your chances.
Being too serious or somber - There are times you NEED to be serious, but you need to be able to shake that off and clown around sometimes. If you don't do it, your conversation might abruptly end.
Too excited - you jump all over the place in the conversation, get sidetracked from the original point too easily. This will drive the other person nuts, and it's generally a good idea to learn to reign this in.
So what IS a good thing to say? Aside from avoiding the above issues, there are a few things you can do. The first is to keep on the topic, and allow for turn taking. The second is to do your part in gauging the conversation, keep a positive attitude, and make it fun! Being fun is a huge part, and you can talk about almost anything!
Another thing to look at - compliments. They can be good, and are usually most welcome. However, you CAN go overboard. If you do, the situation is recoverable though.
If you do pay a compliment, be cautious of the nature of it. You can convey attraction without having to resort to vulgar or intrusive compliments. If you know the person, you can judge it better, but be aware of this issue.
Keeping it simple, and saying something such as "You look gorgeous", can go a long way. Going further than this can cause offense or embarrassment. While that is not always the case, it's a gambit that might not work out. Make sure to look her in the eyes while doing this - looking anywhere else could be potentially bad.
As well, while commenting on a woman's appearance, remember that there is a time and place for everything. One of the biggest mistakes you can make is the timing your compliments poorly, as well as an other flirtatious overture.
Always be aware of the flirtatious overtures you are making. Sometimes it is obvious - you'd want to avoid saying something to someone who just lost a loved one, for example. But there are other times, when it's not so obvious.
A good rule of thumb is to think about it in neutral terms. In other words, would you compliment a man in the situation? Would it seem appropriate? The same would apply if it was a woman. Keep it within those boundaries, and you'll do fine.
While compliments are just a small part, they are important, and when used right will propel the attraction, instead of destroying it.
Pay attention to yourself during a conversation. Take notes too, if you can. Look for the rules mentioned above, and make sure to correct yourself after it happens. Eventually you'll smooth things out.
Coming up soon, I'll show you how listening is another important part of your conversational skills,
communication for shy guys
What is it about shy guys and communication? Shy guys may have a little more trouble expressing themselves in an outgoing people. Sometimes they need that little extra "push" to get them talking.
On he plus side, shy guys are less likely to be loudmouthed or dominate the conversation. They are more likely to let the other person talk, too.
To talk to the shy guy, try showing interest in him. Ask him questions that can't be answered with a simple "yes" or "no." Questions such as "How do you like living here?" "How long have you lived in this area?" "What do you do for recreation?", "Do you enjoy sports?" and suchlike are excellent ways to get the conversational ball rolling.
You may have to make a little effort to balance the two-way exchange. We are all told that dominating the conversation is not a good thing, and the shy guy may feel guilty or uncomfortable if you try to push him to do all the talking. So balance your asking of questions with sharing a little about yourself as well. This will help to balance out the conversation and keep it from sounding like an interview.
You may find that talking to the shy guy is a little bit like priming the pump. You need a few cranks of a lever to get it going. The response to your question of "How do you like it here?" May bring a response of "Well, it's all right, I guess. "
So, to balance the two-way exchange, you may mention how much you enjoy living in the area, how your family all lives here, and how you like to go to the park frequently. Then you ask the shy guy another question.
By sharing a little of yourself, You show that you're willing to give as well as take, so the shy guy is more likely to be feel comfortable in sharing of himself. Your next questions are more likely to bring a good response, but you may need to repeat this process a few times in your conversation to really get things going.
Remember these things about shy guys and communication and I think you will find that shy guys can be great people to talk to.
On he plus side, shy guys are less likely to be loudmouthed or dominate the conversation. They are more likely to let the other person talk, too.
To talk to the shy guy, try showing interest in him. Ask him questions that can't be answered with a simple "yes" or "no." Questions such as "How do you like living here?" "How long have you lived in this area?" "What do you do for recreation?", "Do you enjoy sports?" and suchlike are excellent ways to get the conversational ball rolling.
You may have to make a little effort to balance the two-way exchange. We are all told that dominating the conversation is not a good thing, and the shy guy may feel guilty or uncomfortable if you try to push him to do all the talking. So balance your asking of questions with sharing a little about yourself as well. This will help to balance out the conversation and keep it from sounding like an interview.
You may find that talking to the shy guy is a little bit like priming the pump. You need a few cranks of a lever to get it going. The response to your question of "How do you like it here?" May bring a response of "Well, it's all right, I guess. "
So, to balance the two-way exchange, you may mention how much you enjoy living in the area, how your family all lives here, and how you like to go to the park frequently. Then you ask the shy guy another question.
By sharing a little of yourself, You show that you're willing to give as well as take, so the shy guy is more likely to be feel comfortable in sharing of himself. Your next questions are more likely to bring a good response, but you may need to repeat this process a few times in your conversation to really get things going.
Remember these things about shy guys and communication and I think you will find that shy guys can be great people to talk to.
online dating tips
If you want a journalist who likes listening to Beethoven, say so, otherwise you might end up with a stockbroker who likes listening to Iron Maiden. Try to keep your profile up to date and be straight forward with your thoughts. We suggest adding a photo, if you're comfortable with it. Make sure it's a recent one, and not one of you as a toddler!
When it comes to messaging or emailing, don't include too many details - going overboard isn't sensible. Just talk about things you have in common, and let it flow. Don't be emotional, as the other person will probably take to his or her heels. Remember to be honest - don't lie about who you are not .You will eventually be unmasked, ruining a potential friendship or romance. And remember to stay positive - don't make silly comments about other user's photograph, and don't be critical of their profile.
You need to ensure that your privacy is intact, and that any information you provide is kept confidential. No staff member may ask you for your password, or even use your contact or email details for marketing purposes - though spam is sometimes inevitable and unavoidable. Try not to include your actual email address - you might consider making a separate account just for online dating. And giving out your phone number is a strict no no.
Once you've set up a good friendship, you might consider meeting the person. Remember to tell a close friend where you're going, give all details. If you haven't chatted over the phone yet, we recommend you do that first, to see how it goes. Don't give out extremely personal details like home address and number unless you're sure about the person. Meet in a public place, some kind of familiar location- so that you can relax and enjoy yourself. If at any point you feel offended by his/her behavior, or want to leave, do so.
When it comes to messaging or emailing, don't include too many details - going overboard isn't sensible. Just talk about things you have in common, and let it flow. Don't be emotional, as the other person will probably take to his or her heels. Remember to be honest - don't lie about who you are not .You will eventually be unmasked, ruining a potential friendship or romance. And remember to stay positive - don't make silly comments about other user's photograph, and don't be critical of their profile.
You need to ensure that your privacy is intact, and that any information you provide is kept confidential. No staff member may ask you for your password, or even use your contact or email details for marketing purposes - though spam is sometimes inevitable and unavoidable. Try not to include your actual email address - you might consider making a separate account just for online dating. And giving out your phone number is a strict no no.
Once you've set up a good friendship, you might consider meeting the person. Remember to tell a close friend where you're going, give all details. If you haven't chatted over the phone yet, we recommend you do that first, to see how it goes. Don't give out extremely personal details like home address and number unless you're sure about the person. Meet in a public place, some kind of familiar location- so that you can relax and enjoy yourself. If at any point you feel offended by his/her behavior, or want to leave, do so.
tainted love
Happy relationships occur between two people who are committed, loving, emotionally balanced, and willing to work hard to address any issues that arise. Most people have this type of a relationship as a goal, seeking something fulfilling and that provokes personal development and growth in a positive direction. However, many people become caught up in relationships that cause a great deal of pain or destruction in their lives. Such toxic relationships can unfortunately become very compelling, as an unhealthy and unbalanced relationship pattern becomes the norm. Here are 3 signs that you might be in a toxic relationship:
1. Abuse is present, in any form, in the relationship. Physical abuse is of course extremely dangerous and tends to escalate. It is important to conatct6 a domestic violence professional to help you create a safe plan to get out. If you are being emotionally abused, the damage is also extreme. You might be feeling incapable, with low self worth, or wondering if you are crazy. Your partner may insult and criticize, or try to control your behavior.
2. Addiction is an issue, and your partner is unwilling to take any steps to address the problem. This is a challenging situation, as you are likely to feel tempted to step in and try to "help" your partner. However, shielding him or her from the consequences of abusing drugs and alcohol will only perpetuate the problem, and leave you feeling resentful, frustrated, and like your needs aren't as important. Your partner is likely to be emotionally unavailable to you as he or she pursues the next high, and you may face some of the impact of the consequences, such in legal or financial arenas if your partner gets a DUI, or has an accident and harms someone or property while using.
3. Infidelity is occurring on a serial or repeated basis. An affair doesn't have to mean the end of a relationship, but both partners will need to recommit, establish better communication, increase accountability and work hard to establish trust again. If the affair or affairs are ongoing, the constant betrayal does not leave any foundation for a relationship to be built upon. You are also putting your health at risk if you are with someone who is not monogamous.
Are you interested in addressing your life challenges from a holistic standpoint, assessing the physical, emotional, and relationship components?
1. Abuse is present, in any form, in the relationship. Physical abuse is of course extremely dangerous and tends to escalate. It is important to conatct6 a domestic violence professional to help you create a safe plan to get out. If you are being emotionally abused, the damage is also extreme. You might be feeling incapable, with low self worth, or wondering if you are crazy. Your partner may insult and criticize, or try to control your behavior.
2. Addiction is an issue, and your partner is unwilling to take any steps to address the problem. This is a challenging situation, as you are likely to feel tempted to step in and try to "help" your partner. However, shielding him or her from the consequences of abusing drugs and alcohol will only perpetuate the problem, and leave you feeling resentful, frustrated, and like your needs aren't as important. Your partner is likely to be emotionally unavailable to you as he or she pursues the next high, and you may face some of the impact of the consequences, such in legal or financial arenas if your partner gets a DUI, or has an accident and harms someone or property while using.
3. Infidelity is occurring on a serial or repeated basis. An affair doesn't have to mean the end of a relationship, but both partners will need to recommit, establish better communication, increase accountability and work hard to establish trust again. If the affair or affairs are ongoing, the constant betrayal does not leave any foundation for a relationship to be built upon. You are also putting your health at risk if you are with someone who is not monogamous.
Are you interested in addressing your life challenges from a holistic standpoint, assessing the physical, emotional, and relationship components?
human attraction
According to science, and the law of electromagnetism, "opposites attract". But is this a human law of attraction as well? It could be? This might explain the reason why you always see all those classical teams like Abbott and Costello or Tom and Jerry. But just as often we end up seeing that those that tend to stay together are very similar. This would explain why two best friends tend to be very similar; they have to share similar interest to be friends at all. Also there is that weird happening where old married couples seem to look more and more like each other with every passing year.
Perhaps attraction is a chemical thing? Doesn't the old saying go, "they have chemistry"? Scientist have also found that humans make and secrete pheromones. There is still a lot of research to be done in this area and there are no concrete theories that have come out of the scientific establishment but there have been some interesting finds. The most interesting of these showed that women given old shirts worn by different men would actually be able to tell just from the odor which man was the most appealing to them. Basically they were able to distinguish, without seeing the man, the most handsome men within their study group just from the men's smell!
But as I have said there is still a lot of work to be done in this area and the fact that we developed as very visual creatures, has many scientists believing that visual cues are the most important factors in human attraction.
So how does attraction figure in human relationships?
Well I think this is where there has been little study and if we are to learn anything then its best to learn from complex, higher mammal interrelations. Lest we forget we are a pack animal that likes to live in large and complex social structures. And as such we know for a fact that all females within complex packs are interested in the alpha male of that pack or group. Genetic survival is to be found with the most powerful male in the clan. But the most powerful male is not the biggest, meanest meat-head. If the biggest and meanest was the best and the alpha in our clan, then we would still be Neanderthals. Brains is usually power and it is the best way to acquire those things that demonstrate power.
All males in these complex groups are very interested in youth and health in their women. In order to be sure that your genes are passed on, you need to mate with a young and very fit woman. Youth and fitness are most easily identified by looking for young and healthy bodies. All make up is designed to create the hyper illusion of youth and vigor in women. In order to be attractive then, women should work on their health. The fitter that you become, the more attractive that you will be.
This is attraction at its dirty little best. I hope that you remember that I am going for truth here, and truth can sometimes be a hard pill. In the future I will deal with some of the complexities of human attraction. Funny little things like blonde hair & big boobs, and why Donald Trump can date models.
Perhaps attraction is a chemical thing? Doesn't the old saying go, "they have chemistry"? Scientist have also found that humans make and secrete pheromones. There is still a lot of research to be done in this area and there are no concrete theories that have come out of the scientific establishment but there have been some interesting finds. The most interesting of these showed that women given old shirts worn by different men would actually be able to tell just from the odor which man was the most appealing to them. Basically they were able to distinguish, without seeing the man, the most handsome men within their study group just from the men's smell!
But as I have said there is still a lot of work to be done in this area and the fact that we developed as very visual creatures, has many scientists believing that visual cues are the most important factors in human attraction.
So how does attraction figure in human relationships?
Well I think this is where there has been little study and if we are to learn anything then its best to learn from complex, higher mammal interrelations. Lest we forget we are a pack animal that likes to live in large and complex social structures. And as such we know for a fact that all females within complex packs are interested in the alpha male of that pack or group. Genetic survival is to be found with the most powerful male in the clan. But the most powerful male is not the biggest, meanest meat-head. If the biggest and meanest was the best and the alpha in our clan, then we would still be Neanderthals. Brains is usually power and it is the best way to acquire those things that demonstrate power.
All males in these complex groups are very interested in youth and health in their women. In order to be sure that your genes are passed on, you need to mate with a young and very fit woman. Youth and fitness are most easily identified by looking for young and healthy bodies. All make up is designed to create the hyper illusion of youth and vigor in women. In order to be attractive then, women should work on their health. The fitter that you become, the more attractive that you will be.
This is attraction at its dirty little best. I hope that you remember that I am going for truth here, and truth can sometimes be a hard pill. In the future I will deal with some of the complexities of human attraction. Funny little things like blonde hair & big boobs, and why Donald Trump can date models.
hot make out ;)
Making out can be a wonderful thing, when done correctly. It's really not as difficult as some people would have you believe, but it's also not as easy as other people would have you believe. In this article, you'll learn how to make out. Good thing to know, hmm?
To Make Out, You Must Already be Kissing (Duh) First, you should already be kissing, or about to kiss. See some of the other articles I've written on how to accomplish this. I would love to give you a link, but I'm not allowed to. Check my profile!
Check Your Breath!
Make sure your breath smells good. Eat a mint, or suck on a hard candy. Be sure to dispose of these before you start making out! Do NOT chew gum. It is a common misconception that chewing gum will make your breath nice. It will, for a brief time, but then after a few minutes, the gum will just make your breath stale and your mouth dry. If you are really concerned about your breath, chew the gum for just a few minutes, so your saliva is working and the sweet sugary taste is in your mouth, then quickly dispose of it. Also, try to avoid strong flavored foods before making out, like garlic, unless of course, the person you're about to kiss has been eating the same foods.
Brush the Teeth? The best thing you can do, obviously, is brush your teeth. If you have a really important dinner date, it might be worth your while to pack a toothbrush, or leave one in your car. After the meal, excuse yourself to the bathroom for a few minutes, and brush your teeth! Your partner will definitely appreciate this easy step that will ensure your breath is fresh and minty (I prefer mint toothpaste anyway). :)
When your lips meet your partner's, begin kissing in a rhythmic motion. Keep your lips slightly open, and even think about using the tip of your tongue. Stick to one side, to get comfortable with the motion.
The Secret Word There's a secret word that you can say, to help you practice this motion. I read it once, in a book, and tried it out, and it's really quite amusing and useful. It perfectly mimics the required motion of open lips, darting tongue, and gentle rhythmic motion required for good making out. I reveal this word to you, for free, on my kissing blog. How to Kiss GoodThere's a ton of great information about how to get a first kiss, how to make out, and much more on there. After you finish with this article, go check it out!
While your lips are occupied with your partner's lips, remember to think about what the rest of your body is doing. Use your hands to hold your partner's face and increase the intensity of the kiss. This works for both girls and guys! A great spot to put your hand is on the soft area behind the ear. You can also place your hands on their cheek, or the back of their head. If the kissing gets really passionate, your hands can travel just about anywhere, but for slower, more sensual kissing, keep your hands near their face or neck.
Try to avoid bumping teeth. If you do, just laugh it off, and keep kissing. Don't forget to breathe! So, now you know how to make out. Good luck!
To Make Out, You Must Already be Kissing (Duh) First, you should already be kissing, or about to kiss. See some of the other articles I've written on how to accomplish this. I would love to give you a link, but I'm not allowed to. Check my profile!
Check Your Breath!
Make sure your breath smells good. Eat a mint, or suck on a hard candy. Be sure to dispose of these before you start making out! Do NOT chew gum. It is a common misconception that chewing gum will make your breath nice. It will, for a brief time, but then after a few minutes, the gum will just make your breath stale and your mouth dry. If you are really concerned about your breath, chew the gum for just a few minutes, so your saliva is working and the sweet sugary taste is in your mouth, then quickly dispose of it. Also, try to avoid strong flavored foods before making out, like garlic, unless of course, the person you're about to kiss has been eating the same foods.
Brush the Teeth? The best thing you can do, obviously, is brush your teeth. If you have a really important dinner date, it might be worth your while to pack a toothbrush, or leave one in your car. After the meal, excuse yourself to the bathroom for a few minutes, and brush your teeth! Your partner will definitely appreciate this easy step that will ensure your breath is fresh and minty (I prefer mint toothpaste anyway). :)
When your lips meet your partner's, begin kissing in a rhythmic motion. Keep your lips slightly open, and even think about using the tip of your tongue. Stick to one side, to get comfortable with the motion.
The Secret Word There's a secret word that you can say, to help you practice this motion. I read it once, in a book, and tried it out, and it's really quite amusing and useful. It perfectly mimics the required motion of open lips, darting tongue, and gentle rhythmic motion required for good making out. I reveal this word to you, for free, on my kissing blog. How to Kiss GoodThere's a ton of great information about how to get a first kiss, how to make out, and much more on there. After you finish with this article, go check it out!
While your lips are occupied with your partner's lips, remember to think about what the rest of your body is doing. Use your hands to hold your partner's face and increase the intensity of the kiss. This works for both girls and guys! A great spot to put your hand is on the soft area behind the ear. You can also place your hands on their cheek, or the back of their head. If the kissing gets really passionate, your hands can travel just about anywhere, but for slower, more sensual kissing, keep your hands near their face or neck.
Try to avoid bumping teeth. If you do, just laugh it off, and keep kissing. Don't forget to breathe! So, now you know how to make out. Good luck!
the greath relationship
Behind all the issues that separate an ordinary relationship from a great one, is one common factor. Behind all the truly helpful advice on improving your life together, there lies one key to a great relationship.
Many different kinds of problems can cause a relationship to fall apart. Physical or emotional abuse, addictions, cheating, jealousy, and neediness are just a few of the issues that can destroy a relationship. But once the many potentially disastrous problems have been avoided, what have you got? Perhaps a relationship that qualifies only as "pretty good." But what creates a really great relationship?
At the beginning, we are in relationship because we are attracted to the other person - we think they are sexy, smart, funny, whatever it is that we find appealing. But very quickly, the focus of the relationship turns to whether we feel appreciated. If we don't feel appreciated, we don't feel loved.
It is common for those entering into a relationship to hold an idealized image of how a perfect partner is supposed to act. Perhaps a man is supposed to open car doors. Perhaps a woman is supposed to wear a certain kind of underwear. The internal dialog goes something like this, "Jim (or Sally) is a wonderful person and loves me. After we're together, he will change because he loves me so much. He will stop wanting to hang out with his friends, watch football games, whatever." How can anyone feel appreciated when their loved one is wishing or hoping for them to change.
The greatest roadblock to a great relationship is trying to force a partner to change through bribes or threats. This classic human tendency is lampooned in the long-running off-Broadway musical comedy "I Love You, You're Perfect, Now Change." It's funny to watch other people go through the cycle of searching for the perfect mate, believing they have found that person, and than gradually attempting to remold the supposedly perfect partner. Unfortunately, in real life, this pattern is a cause of immense suffering.
I Love You Just the Way You Are
The number one secret of a great relationship is accepting our partner EXACTLY as they are. We cause ourselves untold misery whenever we believe our loved ones to be imperfect and try to change them.
To create a great relationship, say and mean, "I love you just the way you are." No pretense. No hoping for change. No thought that it used to be better, or might get better. Follow through by living into that sentiment every day.
Falling into the trap of thinking, "I wish you were different" or "Please change." is no way to show your love. Happiness lies in this number one rule of great relationships: Love and accept your partner exactly the way they are.
Many different kinds of problems can cause a relationship to fall apart. Physical or emotional abuse, addictions, cheating, jealousy, and neediness are just a few of the issues that can destroy a relationship. But once the many potentially disastrous problems have been avoided, what have you got? Perhaps a relationship that qualifies only as "pretty good." But what creates a really great relationship?
At the beginning, we are in relationship because we are attracted to the other person - we think they are sexy, smart, funny, whatever it is that we find appealing. But very quickly, the focus of the relationship turns to whether we feel appreciated. If we don't feel appreciated, we don't feel loved.
It is common for those entering into a relationship to hold an idealized image of how a perfect partner is supposed to act. Perhaps a man is supposed to open car doors. Perhaps a woman is supposed to wear a certain kind of underwear. The internal dialog goes something like this, "Jim (or Sally) is a wonderful person and loves me. After we're together, he will change because he loves me so much. He will stop wanting to hang out with his friends, watch football games, whatever." How can anyone feel appreciated when their loved one is wishing or hoping for them to change.
The greatest roadblock to a great relationship is trying to force a partner to change through bribes or threats. This classic human tendency is lampooned in the long-running off-Broadway musical comedy "I Love You, You're Perfect, Now Change." It's funny to watch other people go through the cycle of searching for the perfect mate, believing they have found that person, and than gradually attempting to remold the supposedly perfect partner. Unfortunately, in real life, this pattern is a cause of immense suffering.
I Love You Just the Way You Are
The number one secret of a great relationship is accepting our partner EXACTLY as they are. We cause ourselves untold misery whenever we believe our loved ones to be imperfect and try to change them.
To create a great relationship, say and mean, "I love you just the way you are." No pretense. No hoping for change. No thought that it used to be better, or might get better. Follow through by living into that sentiment every day.
Falling into the trap of thinking, "I wish you were different" or "Please change." is no way to show your love. Happiness lies in this number one rule of great relationships: Love and accept your partner exactly the way they are.
energy in your relationship?
Dealing with others, whether at work or at home is sometimes challenging and often difficult. And yet, relationships are a necessary and important part of life. Energy therapy healing is a method of therapy that can help you improve your relationships. It offers a unique and therapeutic way of handling persistent relationship problems. It offers a well rounded therapeutic approach alone or when combined with whole life coaching methods.
The challenges that come about in relationships can stem from a variety of things. In order to find out what is at the heart of the conflict you have to start looking within yourself. You have to figure out what is happening inside you that may be triggering this problem in your relationships.
You are not necessarily the cause of the problem, but you can be the one to find the solution. When you turn your attention to your part in the conflict, you will find you gain a new perspective on the situation as a whole.
Energy therapy healing focuses on a persons energy flow and looks for what might be blocking that energy. Blocked energy creates emotional, physical and spiritual problems for an individual. These problems have an impact on relationships. If you are feeling insecure in some way about yourself this will likely show up as a problem in your relationships.
Energy healing therapy opens up the flow of positive energy. This helps you get in touch with your feelings and spirituality. You will discover how what your feelings and actions may have been a factor in your difficult relationships. Energy healing therapy will help you feel more positive and you will begin to think, feel and act differently. As a result, you will draw more positive energy toward yourself and your relationships.
The goals of energy therapy healing are to help you in your life and in your interactions with others. You will start to develop your own identity more clearly.
Energy therapy healing will give you a more positive outlook. You will feel energized and your negative mood will slowly disappear. When you come to understand life more clearly and those around you, you will draw more positive energy toward you and leave little room for the negative.
Energy therapy healing allows you to change. You can become a positive person. You can have all the things in life that you want. You can reach your goals and influence others to reach theirs. You will find this to be a real life changing experience.
If you are interested in results through energy therapy healing, you will have to put effort into the process. It is not a quick fix. A few people experience changes in their life from the very first day, but most discover it takes to for the healing to work. But whether its fast or slow, if you put enough time consistently into the process, you will see results.
The challenges that come about in relationships can stem from a variety of things. In order to find out what is at the heart of the conflict you have to start looking within yourself. You have to figure out what is happening inside you that may be triggering this problem in your relationships.
You are not necessarily the cause of the problem, but you can be the one to find the solution. When you turn your attention to your part in the conflict, you will find you gain a new perspective on the situation as a whole.
Energy therapy healing focuses on a persons energy flow and looks for what might be blocking that energy. Blocked energy creates emotional, physical and spiritual problems for an individual. These problems have an impact on relationships. If you are feeling insecure in some way about yourself this will likely show up as a problem in your relationships.
Energy healing therapy opens up the flow of positive energy. This helps you get in touch with your feelings and spirituality. You will discover how what your feelings and actions may have been a factor in your difficult relationships. Energy healing therapy will help you feel more positive and you will begin to think, feel and act differently. As a result, you will draw more positive energy toward yourself and your relationships.
The goals of energy therapy healing are to help you in your life and in your interactions with others. You will start to develop your own identity more clearly.
Energy therapy healing will give you a more positive outlook. You will feel energized and your negative mood will slowly disappear. When you come to understand life more clearly and those around you, you will draw more positive energy toward you and leave little room for the negative.
Energy therapy healing allows you to change. You can become a positive person. You can have all the things in life that you want. You can reach your goals and influence others to reach theirs. You will find this to be a real life changing experience.
If you are interested in results through energy therapy healing, you will have to put effort into the process. It is not a quick fix. A few people experience changes in their life from the very first day, but most discover it takes to for the healing to work. But whether its fast or slow, if you put enough time consistently into the process, you will see results.
why should she loves you?
It does not seem possible, but women do love the bad boy attitude that seems to make the guy sexier and more attractive. What is it about having this attitude that makes the woman drool and pant after you? Read the following and find out why bad guys seem to win in this dating world!
Girls seem to hate wimps and "momma's boys". The more you prove that you can't stand up for yourself, the more they will begin to hate the sight of you. These kinds of boys are usually "yes" men who don't seem to have a mind of their own. Girls like boys to be decisive and even assertive to a point.
The "bad" boy usually is not really bad inside, and the girls somehow sense that. They just seem bad because of the "rebellious look" they sport. Girls love it when they go out with a "bad" guy and feel that it proves that they are brave and daring to go out with them.
Bad guys have a distinctive style of dress that appeals to the girls. They are so obviously different from the usual guys they hang out with that they stand out and seem more attractive. The girls feel singled out and special if they are asked out by a bad boy. They feel that the bad boy attitude that is so 'naughty" is revolutionary and exciting.
Bad boys are not followers but leaders in a way and this excites the girls. The "don't care attitude" is appealing to them as opposed to the straight boring guy who is so predictable!
As mentioned before, the bad guy does not really have to be 'bad', because no sooner than the first attraction dies, the girls are going to be put off if you really have traits of dishonesty and selfishness lurking underneath. No leather jacket or Harley Davidson can actually hide your personality - let her find out that her "bad" boy is really a "good" one!
Now listen carefully-
What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....
Girls seem to hate wimps and "momma's boys". The more you prove that you can't stand up for yourself, the more they will begin to hate the sight of you. These kinds of boys are usually "yes" men who don't seem to have a mind of their own. Girls like boys to be decisive and even assertive to a point.
The "bad" boy usually is not really bad inside, and the girls somehow sense that. They just seem bad because of the "rebellious look" they sport. Girls love it when they go out with a "bad" guy and feel that it proves that they are brave and daring to go out with them.
Bad guys have a distinctive style of dress that appeals to the girls. They are so obviously different from the usual guys they hang out with that they stand out and seem more attractive. The girls feel singled out and special if they are asked out by a bad boy. They feel that the bad boy attitude that is so 'naughty" is revolutionary and exciting.
Bad boys are not followers but leaders in a way and this excites the girls. The "don't care attitude" is appealing to them as opposed to the straight boring guy who is so predictable!
As mentioned before, the bad guy does not really have to be 'bad', because no sooner than the first attraction dies, the girls are going to be put off if you really have traits of dishonesty and selfishness lurking underneath. No leather jacket or Harley Davidson can actually hide your personality - let her find out that her "bad" boy is really a "good" one!
Now listen carefully-
What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....
make her fall for you
Many guys will find themselves frustrated and wondering what they can and should do in order to make a woman really fall for them. They may ask their friends or look for information on the internet or in books. At the end of the day, there are many guys who will just kind of give up on trying to make her really want to be with them. You do not have to do this. You can learn how to make her really fall for you.
We are attracted to people fro many different reasons. One is that we see that the other person can somehow make our life better. This is what you have to be able to make her see when she looks at you and when she thinks of you as well. There are many mistakes that you should never make. If you do, then you are guaranteeing yourself that she will not fall for you.
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
Instead of focusing on trying to make her fall for you, focus your attention on just having a good time. You have to trust that you do have what it takes to make her want to spend time with you and to bring things to a romantic level. If you lack the confidence in yourself, it probably will not happen.
There are ways that you can attract what you want in life, including women, but you must know what they are. Learn these ways and what you can do and you will be able to get what you want!
We are attracted to people fro many different reasons. One is that we see that the other person can somehow make our life better. This is what you have to be able to make her see when she looks at you and when she thinks of you as well. There are many mistakes that you should never make. If you do, then you are guaranteeing yourself that she will not fall for you.
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
Instead of focusing on trying to make her fall for you, focus your attention on just having a good time. You have to trust that you do have what it takes to make her want to spend time with you and to bring things to a romantic level. If you lack the confidence in yourself, it probably will not happen.
There are ways that you can attract what you want in life, including women, but you must know what they are. Learn these ways and what you can do and you will be able to get what you want!
what to ask a women?
Looking for random questions to ask your boyfriend? Although you may ask your boyfriend questions everyday, there are deeper, more meaningful things you probably want to know. Don't be afraid to ask him what's on your mind. And if you aren't sure how to put your questions into words, use these random questions to ask your boyfriend as a starting point.
What would you spend your time doing on an ideal day? Asking them this lets you know what they really enjoy doing and what they value most. If you really focus on their answer and analyze it then you will learn a lot about them.
What is your ultimate career goal? Whether they are still in school or at a secure job, they should have a plan to accomplish more. Finding out where they want to go in their career will give you insight into where they will likely end up. It is important that they have a plan.
How would you describe your father? As much as they may hate to admit it, your boyfriend is likely to become this description of his father. Occasionally someone breaks the mold and turns out completely different, but it's certainly something to keep in mind.
Who is the one historical figure that you admire most? Again, this will give you an idea of their values and morals. If you don't know much about the person they name, do some research and find out what they accomplished and stood for.
Describe me in five words. This is important because this lets them know how they feel about you without putting the pressure on them to actually tell you how they feel.
What is the one thing you wish you could change in your past? This will not only let you know something that has happened in their past that they regret, but it will also let you know what area you can support and lift them up.
These are just a few random questions to ask your boyfriend. Open communication is key to any successful relationship so never be afraid to ask him things. Don't be too pushy or act suspicious, but you can present these in a light, no-pressure environment so that they don't feel like they are on trial. Another thing you can do is space the time between the random questions to ask your boyfriend out so that he doesn't notice as much.
What would you spend your time doing on an ideal day? Asking them this lets you know what they really enjoy doing and what they value most. If you really focus on their answer and analyze it then you will learn a lot about them.
What is your ultimate career goal? Whether they are still in school or at a secure job, they should have a plan to accomplish more. Finding out where they want to go in their career will give you insight into where they will likely end up. It is important that they have a plan.
How would you describe your father? As much as they may hate to admit it, your boyfriend is likely to become this description of his father. Occasionally someone breaks the mold and turns out completely different, but it's certainly something to keep in mind.
Who is the one historical figure that you admire most? Again, this will give you an idea of their values and morals. If you don't know much about the person they name, do some research and find out what they accomplished and stood for.
Describe me in five words. This is important because this lets them know how they feel about you without putting the pressure on them to actually tell you how they feel.
What is the one thing you wish you could change in your past? This will not only let you know something that has happened in their past that they regret, but it will also let you know what area you can support and lift them up.
These are just a few random questions to ask your boyfriend. Open communication is key to any successful relationship so never be afraid to ask him things. Don't be too pushy or act suspicious, but you can present these in a light, no-pressure environment so that they don't feel like they are on trial. Another thing you can do is space the time between the random questions to ask your boyfriend out so that he doesn't notice as much.
attract women
It's so important to get your mindset and attitude right when your goal is to attract women. It's important you realize that it's not so much about how much money you have in the bank, what you own, or the actual words you use.
Instead, you're much better off focusing on the way you behave, and the beliefs you hold in mind as you interact with attractive women. Whilst a woman's appearance is a major factor for guys, a man's 'looks' are far less influential in determining how attracted she feels.
These are the attributes that women find most attractive:
1) Confidence
A confident man is very appealing to women. Basically, developing yourself into a confident guy is crucial when attracting women. As far as women are concerned, a man who shows confidence clearly recognizes the value he has to offer the world, and this quality attracts girls like a bee to honey.
She's almost powerless to resist.
To a large extent, you can demonstrate 'confidence' by systematically eliminating any signs of insecurity in the way you behave. True, it may time time to achieve this. Although, the benefits you'll enjoy as a result make it one of the best things you can possibly do.
2) Be 'Unflappable'
So, what's all this about?
Ultimately, this is about keeping your composure, regardless of how hectic things become. Despite people having a go at you or being negative, you can detach yourself from all of that and feel good at all times. Women are automatically attracted to an emotionally independent man. They want to see that your happiness is not dependent on getting validation from them. That's why a woman will very often test a man right at the start of an interaction, simply to work out if you have this quality of 'unflappability'. Stay calm, and you will pass the test.
Practice being 'unflappable'.
3) Have Fun And Lead The Way
When you demonstrate to a woman your fun and leadership qualities, she can't help but find you attractive. This is due to the fact that women prefer men to lead in a way that feels 'fun'. Therefore, just focus on piling on the laughter while at the same time guiding the direction of the conversation, and you'll achieve great success in your interactions with women.
So those are 3 great qualities that attract women to men. Make sure that you and the woman you're with are enjoying yourselves, as you take the lead in a way that is both confident and emotionally independent. Cultivate these qualities, and the attraction women feel for you will happen automatically.
If you gained good value from reading this report, I also have a review of a complete product that you might want to read here: Review of How To Be Irresistible To Women.
Instead, you're much better off focusing on the way you behave, and the beliefs you hold in mind as you interact with attractive women. Whilst a woman's appearance is a major factor for guys, a man's 'looks' are far less influential in determining how attracted she feels.
These are the attributes that women find most attractive:
1) Confidence
A confident man is very appealing to women. Basically, developing yourself into a confident guy is crucial when attracting women. As far as women are concerned, a man who shows confidence clearly recognizes the value he has to offer the world, and this quality attracts girls like a bee to honey.
She's almost powerless to resist.
To a large extent, you can demonstrate 'confidence' by systematically eliminating any signs of insecurity in the way you behave. True, it may time time to achieve this. Although, the benefits you'll enjoy as a result make it one of the best things you can possibly do.
2) Be 'Unflappable'
So, what's all this about?
Ultimately, this is about keeping your composure, regardless of how hectic things become. Despite people having a go at you or being negative, you can detach yourself from all of that and feel good at all times. Women are automatically attracted to an emotionally independent man. They want to see that your happiness is not dependent on getting validation from them. That's why a woman will very often test a man right at the start of an interaction, simply to work out if you have this quality of 'unflappability'. Stay calm, and you will pass the test.
Practice being 'unflappable'.
3) Have Fun And Lead The Way
When you demonstrate to a woman your fun and leadership qualities, she can't help but find you attractive. This is due to the fact that women prefer men to lead in a way that feels 'fun'. Therefore, just focus on piling on the laughter while at the same time guiding the direction of the conversation, and you'll achieve great success in your interactions with women.
So those are 3 great qualities that attract women to men. Make sure that you and the woman you're with are enjoying yourselves, as you take the lead in a way that is both confident and emotionally independent. Cultivate these qualities, and the attraction women feel for you will happen automatically.
If you gained good value from reading this report, I also have a review of a complete product that you might want to read here: Review of How To Be Irresistible To Women.
romantic day
If you really want to impress that special someone, treat them to a day's worth of romance. Whether it's for a special occasion, or "just because," you're sure to score major brownie points with this idea. Read on to learn how.
Approach the day like a scavenger hunt, and start it with a special love note. Direct your partner to a specific location in the house, such as the kitchen, and make sure the note is romantic. A message like, "Breakfast is ready downstairs. Eat and enjoy yourself," would be nice.
When he or she gets to the kitchen, there should be another note waiting for them. On the envelope, instruct them to not open it until they've finished eating. When they do read it, the note should send them to another area in the house, where they'll find a special present. Flowers or candy are good ideas, as they're romantic, but don't cost too much.
Continue leading them with notes, and get imaginative! A good idea would be to send them into the living room to watch their favorite movie. Interrupt the film by having flowers delivered. When she opens the card, make sure it instructs her to get ready for a romantic evening out.
From there, the sky's the limit. You can take your love to a fancy dinner, or maybe even spend the night in a gorgeous hotel. Another good idea would be to rent a limo, and have it pick her up at a set time. There's no limit to what you can do!
Just as long as you pack the day full of excitement and romance, they'll be impressed. By thinking outside the box, it's easy to create a day's worth of romance, not to mention lasting memories.
Approach the day like a scavenger hunt, and start it with a special love note. Direct your partner to a specific location in the house, such as the kitchen, and make sure the note is romantic. A message like, "Breakfast is ready downstairs. Eat and enjoy yourself," would be nice.
When he or she gets to the kitchen, there should be another note waiting for them. On the envelope, instruct them to not open it until they've finished eating. When they do read it, the note should send them to another area in the house, where they'll find a special present. Flowers or candy are good ideas, as they're romantic, but don't cost too much.
Continue leading them with notes, and get imaginative! A good idea would be to send them into the living room to watch their favorite movie. Interrupt the film by having flowers delivered. When she opens the card, make sure it instructs her to get ready for a romantic evening out.
From there, the sky's the limit. You can take your love to a fancy dinner, or maybe even spend the night in a gorgeous hotel. Another good idea would be to rent a limo, and have it pick her up at a set time. There's no limit to what you can do!
Just as long as you pack the day full of excitement and romance, they'll be impressed. By thinking outside the box, it's easy to create a day's worth of romance, not to mention lasting memories.
pain?
When someone breaks up with you, it takes a toll on you emotionally and physically. Breaking up is nerve wracking, stressful and frustrating, especially if you were together for a long time. If you're reading this article it probably means you've been there too, or you're there right now. You know how hard it is to wake up in the morning and spend another day without that person. You can't stop thinking about that person because everywhere you turn there's another reminder of the times you had together. You also feel like you want to do whatever you can to regain what you've lost and you feel anxious to reconnect which causes you to call, text, email your ex constantly trying to get them to talk to you. You beg forgiveness, try to make them feel sorry for you, promise you'll change if they just give you another chance. Sad, but true and this needy behavior will only cause your ex to pull away from you further. This is because you're only pressuring your ex to take you back and people naturally resist against this kind of pressure.
You obviously want to get back with your ex from the bottom of your heart, but if you let your emotions get the better of you, you're only going to worsen the situation and make it harder, if not impossible, to get your ex back. The first thing to do when your relationship ends is to accept it. You have to force yourself to calm down and accept that the relationship is over and no amount of agonizing will change that. This will help you on your way to getting your ex back because once you accept that it's over, you can start to think rationally about why it ended in the first place. Once you understand why you are in a better position to get your ex back and make things work for a long time because not only will you be able to work on what went wrong, you'll be able to stop yourself from repeating the same mistakes.
You should also stay strong and grounded and not let your ex think you're needy or desperate. Let that person see that you are moving on with your life. Go out with friends, do your own thing and just have fun instead of focusing on your relationship issues. Not only does this show your ex that you are doing ok, it lets them see you as the person they fell in love again and reminds them why they fell in love with you in the first place. This also helps you because once you let yourself heal and get yourself on track and feeling good about yourself, you'll be better able to communicate with your ex and come across as strong and self-confident not needy and desperate.
You obviously want to get back with your ex from the bottom of your heart, but if you let your emotions get the better of you, you're only going to worsen the situation and make it harder, if not impossible, to get your ex back. The first thing to do when your relationship ends is to accept it. You have to force yourself to calm down and accept that the relationship is over and no amount of agonizing will change that. This will help you on your way to getting your ex back because once you accept that it's over, you can start to think rationally about why it ended in the first place. Once you understand why you are in a better position to get your ex back and make things work for a long time because not only will you be able to work on what went wrong, you'll be able to stop yourself from repeating the same mistakes.
You should also stay strong and grounded and not let your ex think you're needy or desperate. Let that person see that you are moving on with your life. Go out with friends, do your own thing and just have fun instead of focusing on your relationship issues. Not only does this show your ex that you are doing ok, it lets them see you as the person they fell in love again and reminds them why they fell in love with you in the first place. This also helps you because once you let yourself heal and get yourself on track and feeling good about yourself, you'll be better able to communicate with your ex and come across as strong and self-confident not needy and desperate.
4 Quick Tips to Increase Your Impact
When people hear me talk about making a bigger impact in the world, they often jump to the conclusion that means starting an international nonprofit or growing a big-company empire that does business around the globe. Whew, sounds exhausting, right?
Now hang on a moment before overwhelm sets in and you decide it's not worth your effort to "make a big impact". While becoming an international force for change is certainly one way to make a bigger impact, it is far from the only way. It is possible to make a huge difference with even a small, local presence or working with a very tiny, select group of people.
Let me share four quick tips with you on how you can increase your impact in the world. I guarantee at least one of these will work for you, whether you're an entrepreneur or nonprofit executive and regardless of the current size or scope of your business.
Tip #1: Expand into new geographic areas
If you're operating with a brick-and-mortar business, this could mean going virtual. Or you could take your online business local. You can expand to new towns, from local to national, or from national to international.
Tip #2: Expand to new niche markets
Let's say you're a wellness coach for women over 40 who are looking for new workout strategies to help them get in shape easily, control their weight, and improve their overall health. You could take your same programs and market them to new moms. It might mean slight adjustments to your programs and your marketing approach, but the core solution you're offering is the same for both niche markets. Note: this works best if your two niches share similar problems, needs, and desired results.
Tip #3: Add to your service offerings
You can do this through strategic partnerships (the client works directly with another business or service provider), subcontract arrangements (you bring in other experts to deliver services as part of your organization), or by personally delivering new, complimentary services to your clients.
Tip #4: Create new programs or repackage the ones you have
One-size-fits-all rarely works when it comes to services. By packaging your expertise into a variety of programs, information products, and service packages, you enable more people to work with you. Thus increasing your ability to impact their lives.
It doesn't have to be overwhelming or difficult to create bigger impact in the world!
Choose one of these methods for delivering bigger impact and create a plan for taking action on it. My advice is to start with one that is a stretch (growth happens when we stretch!), but make it a feasible stretch so you can move forward easily and quickly.
Laura Ege, the Social Entrepreneur's Coach, helps purpose-inspired entrepreneurs change the world while also building a great lifestyle business. Visit http://www.Laura-Ege.com for your free copy of her popular e-book "7 Essential Keys to Build a Thriving Business".
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Laura_C._Ege
Now hang on a moment before overwhelm sets in and you decide it's not worth your effort to "make a big impact". While becoming an international force for change is certainly one way to make a bigger impact, it is far from the only way. It is possible to make a huge difference with even a small, local presence or working with a very tiny, select group of people.
Let me share four quick tips with you on how you can increase your impact in the world. I guarantee at least one of these will work for you, whether you're an entrepreneur or nonprofit executive and regardless of the current size or scope of your business.
Tip #1: Expand into new geographic areas
If you're operating with a brick-and-mortar business, this could mean going virtual. Or you could take your online business local. You can expand to new towns, from local to national, or from national to international.
Tip #2: Expand to new niche markets
Let's say you're a wellness coach for women over 40 who are looking for new workout strategies to help them get in shape easily, control their weight, and improve their overall health. You could take your same programs and market them to new moms. It might mean slight adjustments to your programs and your marketing approach, but the core solution you're offering is the same for both niche markets. Note: this works best if your two niches share similar problems, needs, and desired results.
Tip #3: Add to your service offerings
You can do this through strategic partnerships (the client works directly with another business or service provider), subcontract arrangements (you bring in other experts to deliver services as part of your organization), or by personally delivering new, complimentary services to your clients.
Tip #4: Create new programs or repackage the ones you have
One-size-fits-all rarely works when it comes to services. By packaging your expertise into a variety of programs, information products, and service packages, you enable more people to work with you. Thus increasing your ability to impact their lives.
It doesn't have to be overwhelming or difficult to create bigger impact in the world!
Choose one of these methods for delivering bigger impact and create a plan for taking action on it. My advice is to start with one that is a stretch (growth happens when we stretch!), but make it a feasible stretch so you can move forward easily and quickly.
Laura Ege, the Social Entrepreneur's Coach, helps purpose-inspired entrepreneurs change the world while also building a great lifestyle business. Visit http://www.Laura-Ege.com for your free copy of her popular e-book "7 Essential Keys to Build a Thriving Business".
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Laura_C._Ege
alpha?
If you think enchantment and affection cannot be manufactured, you are sorely mistaken. You can develop attraction if you know how. If you can induce attraction in a girl, how easy would dating be? Pretty uncomplicated, and devoid of all the resistance mechanisms that girls put up when dating men, don't you think so? So now we get to how you can solve the seduction mystery that baffles men every so often.
You see, dating is a game, but you must possess specific skills to win. Rejection is a big risk, and it could leave you emotionally scarred if you're not careful. Read on to find out the ways to lessen the risk of rejection, and be the guy who can generate attraction in women whenever and wherever he wants.
How To Be the Man Any Woman Would Love to Date - in Three Simple Steps
#1. Be Exceptional
Don't be like the other guys who fumble and stutter around beautiful women. Show her and everyone else that you're a guy who can keep his cool even under pressure. Girls love guys who can act cool, regardless of the situation.
In fact, some women like it when men show enough confidence to just walk away when the conversation is going nowhere. Guys who can stand their ground are exceptional in women's eyes.
#2. Be Cool but Fun to Hang Out With
A guy who broods keeps a negative energy about him, and this is repulsive to girls. If you can make women laugh out loud just by talking to them, you effectively make them drop their guards long enough for you to work your magic.
#3. Touch Her Inner Diva
A woman loves to be treated like the diva that she is, but only if the guy is equally worthy. You have to respect her intelligence to be able to build rapport. If she feels disrespected in any way, you can forget about getting her number.
Now, if you're the impatient sort, you might want to know about some covert methods to jump-start attraction without much fuss. I'm talking about the underhanded psychology and hypnosis tactics that seduction artists use to attract women.
One such technique, known as 'fractionation', involves bringing the girl through an emotional rollercoaster through a conversation, and anchoring her 'pleasure states' to you, making her vulnerable emotionally. It is known to be able to make a girl fall in love in as little as 14 minutes.
But before you use this technique, you must heed this warning...
You see, dating is a game, but you must possess specific skills to win. Rejection is a big risk, and it could leave you emotionally scarred if you're not careful. Read on to find out the ways to lessen the risk of rejection, and be the guy who can generate attraction in women whenever and wherever he wants.
How To Be the Man Any Woman Would Love to Date - in Three Simple Steps
#1. Be Exceptional
Don't be like the other guys who fumble and stutter around beautiful women. Show her and everyone else that you're a guy who can keep his cool even under pressure. Girls love guys who can act cool, regardless of the situation.
In fact, some women like it when men show enough confidence to just walk away when the conversation is going nowhere. Guys who can stand their ground are exceptional in women's eyes.
#2. Be Cool but Fun to Hang Out With
A guy who broods keeps a negative energy about him, and this is repulsive to girls. If you can make women laugh out loud just by talking to them, you effectively make them drop their guards long enough for you to work your magic.
#3. Touch Her Inner Diva
A woman loves to be treated like the diva that she is, but only if the guy is equally worthy. You have to respect her intelligence to be able to build rapport. If she feels disrespected in any way, you can forget about getting her number.
Now, if you're the impatient sort, you might want to know about some covert methods to jump-start attraction without much fuss. I'm talking about the underhanded psychology and hypnosis tactics that seduction artists use to attract women.
One such technique, known as 'fractionation', involves bringing the girl through an emotional rollercoaster through a conversation, and anchoring her 'pleasure states' to you, making her vulnerable emotionally. It is known to be able to make a girl fall in love in as little as 14 minutes.
But before you use this technique, you must heed this warning...
get the number of your dream girl
You have found a girl you really like. But you met with her in a group and you really do not know anything beyond her name. You want to talk to her alone but you do not have her phone number! Sounds familiar?
So what do you do to get the girl's number? There are many ways to get the girl's number. If you do things right you will be able to get her number.
• You have met this girl in a group there would be a mutual friend who will have the phone number. All you have to do is ask that mutual friend for the phone number.
• If you have met her somewhere else and no mutual friend is there to help you then you have to wait for an opportunity. Spend some time with her by concentrating on the conversation. Find out what she likes and what she dislikes. Once some level of confidence is achieved then casually ask for the phone number.
• If you are looking after your body and are working out and dressing in a proper way, then there will be lots of girls who would be interested in you. Once that particular girl sees it she will give you her phone number without even you asking for it.
• You have to bring the subject of the number very casually in your conversation. Make sure you do not come on strong. That may put the girl off.
The tone of your voice and your body language has to be in perfect sync to achieve the result. It should be casual and the message should be 'whatever'! If the girl sees that it is not a big deal then she will give that to you.
Now listen carefully-
What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read- Click Here
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Rahul_Talwar
So what do you do to get the girl's number? There are many ways to get the girl's number. If you do things right you will be able to get her number.
• You have met this girl in a group there would be a mutual friend who will have the phone number. All you have to do is ask that mutual friend for the phone number.
• If you have met her somewhere else and no mutual friend is there to help you then you have to wait for an opportunity. Spend some time with her by concentrating on the conversation. Find out what she likes and what she dislikes. Once some level of confidence is achieved then casually ask for the phone number.
• If you are looking after your body and are working out and dressing in a proper way, then there will be lots of girls who would be interested in you. Once that particular girl sees it she will give you her phone number without even you asking for it.
• You have to bring the subject of the number very casually in your conversation. Make sure you do not come on strong. That may put the girl off.
The tone of your voice and your body language has to be in perfect sync to achieve the result. It should be casual and the message should be 'whatever'! If the girl sees that it is not a big deal then she will give that to you.
Now listen carefully-
What you are about to discover something most men will never know when it comes to attracting women. This is one thing which is an absolute must know for every man out there. You are about to discover an ultimate secret weapon which will make women chase you around like crazy Even If You Are Bald, Fat Or Ugly!.....Trust me....You don't want to miss this one. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page because it might be the most important message you ever read- Click Here
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Rahul_Talwar
she is sleeping with her boss 2
Most guys have a sixth sense when it comes to suspecting that their wife is cheating. It might only be a small nagging doubt at the back of your mind. But it's still there and won't go away. What should a husband do when he suspects his wife is cheating? Start off by comparing her actions to the top ten signs that a wife is cheating.
Though there are some fairly consistent actions all women take when cheating, things will be a somewhat different for a cheating wife rather than a cheating girlfriend. You live with your wife and can monitor her comings and goings much easier. Your commitment of marriage should enable you to be more aware of her moods and subtle changes in her behavior.
Most of the time your suspicions will be right, but people aren't perfect and everyone makes mistakes.
If your wife is cheating, then you need to act fast to either save your marriage or end the relationship altogether and move on.
This list of the Ten Signs that a Wife is Cheating is your starting point when trying to figure out if she is having an affair.
Distracted and Preoccupied? Do you notice her being distracted and preoccupied more than usual? Wives are often distracted with the grind of day to day life, working, running errands, household chores, ect. But if she seems to be consistently distracted more than usual, it could mean she has other things on her mind...things you aren't aware of.
Sudden Unavailability. Does she seem to be out of her office more than usual? She suddenly keeps forgetting to turn on her cell phone? If you are all of a sudden having a hard time getting a hold of her it could mean those two hours business lunches are including desert.
Has she taken to playing 'Fashion Parade' with a new sexy wardrobe? Does a shopping trip to the mall really require skin tight jeans, thigh high boots and a low cut shirt that lets it all hang out? You might want to take not of where she is going when she is 'dressed for success'.
A makeover for her appearance or her love life? Have you noticed her trying out new hairstyles, new hair color or experimenting with makeup? She may be trying to look good for someone other than you.
Sudden obsession with dieting and working out in the gym? Women always want to be skinnier. But hitting the gym five nights a week is a bit much for most women. That is, unless she isn't spending every one of those nights at the gym.
Notice a sudden increase in her visiting family or her best friend? Just how many best friends does she have that need emotional support? It could be that she has other emotions at work here.
Is your bedroom serving double duty for a chest freezer? If the heat in your bedroom can't get above freezing then it could mean her frigidness towards is the only thing that is left over after using up the heat on her affair.
Have friends and family stopped dropping by or hanging out? They might be avoiding you if they know something is up and they don't want to have to look you in the eye and lie to you.
Musical passenger seat? Have you noticed any changes with her passenger seat? Is the seat pushed farther back? Has the seat been lowered? Is the new girl she carpools with really 6ft 7in tall?
Is she in danger of tapping out the mileage on her car before the warranty runs out? It makes you wonder just where she is going to accumulate all those extra miles. The bank? The grocery store? What do you think?
These top ten signs that a wife is cheating are the main signs you will notice if your wife is cheating. Now not all of these signs are going to mean that she is definitely cheating on you. There are often medical reasons, stress related reasons, and financial issues, that can cause your wife to act out of character.
But if you notice a good many of these signs you might want to investigate further into the situation to find out if your wife is cheating.
You need to get as much information as possible before you make any kind of accusations that could end your marriage. You might want to look at some more resources to get additional information on cheating, or even look at how I used the internet to catch my wife cheating.
If you are sure your wife is cheating and you want solid evidence then your best bet is to find out exactly how to catch a cheating spouse.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Shaun_Burress
Though there are some fairly consistent actions all women take when cheating, things will be a somewhat different for a cheating wife rather than a cheating girlfriend. You live with your wife and can monitor her comings and goings much easier. Your commitment of marriage should enable you to be more aware of her moods and subtle changes in her behavior.
Most of the time your suspicions will be right, but people aren't perfect and everyone makes mistakes.
If your wife is cheating, then you need to act fast to either save your marriage or end the relationship altogether and move on.
This list of the Ten Signs that a Wife is Cheating is your starting point when trying to figure out if she is having an affair.
Distracted and Preoccupied? Do you notice her being distracted and preoccupied more than usual? Wives are often distracted with the grind of day to day life, working, running errands, household chores, ect. But if she seems to be consistently distracted more than usual, it could mean she has other things on her mind...things you aren't aware of.
Sudden Unavailability. Does she seem to be out of her office more than usual? She suddenly keeps forgetting to turn on her cell phone? If you are all of a sudden having a hard time getting a hold of her it could mean those two hours business lunches are including desert.
Has she taken to playing 'Fashion Parade' with a new sexy wardrobe? Does a shopping trip to the mall really require skin tight jeans, thigh high boots and a low cut shirt that lets it all hang out? You might want to take not of where she is going when she is 'dressed for success'.
A makeover for her appearance or her love life? Have you noticed her trying out new hairstyles, new hair color or experimenting with makeup? She may be trying to look good for someone other than you.
Sudden obsession with dieting and working out in the gym? Women always want to be skinnier. But hitting the gym five nights a week is a bit much for most women. That is, unless she isn't spending every one of those nights at the gym.
Notice a sudden increase in her visiting family or her best friend? Just how many best friends does she have that need emotional support? It could be that she has other emotions at work here.
Is your bedroom serving double duty for a chest freezer? If the heat in your bedroom can't get above freezing then it could mean her frigidness towards is the only thing that is left over after using up the heat on her affair.
Have friends and family stopped dropping by or hanging out? They might be avoiding you if they know something is up and they don't want to have to look you in the eye and lie to you.
Musical passenger seat? Have you noticed any changes with her passenger seat? Is the seat pushed farther back? Has the seat been lowered? Is the new girl she carpools with really 6ft 7in tall?
Is she in danger of tapping out the mileage on her car before the warranty runs out? It makes you wonder just where she is going to accumulate all those extra miles. The bank? The grocery store? What do you think?
These top ten signs that a wife is cheating are the main signs you will notice if your wife is cheating. Now not all of these signs are going to mean that she is definitely cheating on you. There are often medical reasons, stress related reasons, and financial issues, that can cause your wife to act out of character.
But if you notice a good many of these signs you might want to investigate further into the situation to find out if your wife is cheating.
You need to get as much information as possible before you make any kind of accusations that could end your marriage. You might want to look at some more resources to get additional information on cheating, or even look at how I used the internet to catch my wife cheating.
If you are sure your wife is cheating and you want solid evidence then your best bet is to find out exactly how to catch a cheating spouse.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Shaun_Burress
she is sleeping with her boss
Have you ever wondered to yourself "am I being cheated on?"... Did you ever wish you knew how to catch a cheater, so that you can clear up all of your doubts? A cheating spouse or lover will never admit what they are doing behind your back, and he/she will try hard to cover up their dirty deeds. That is why it is critical for you to know the signs so that you are not played for a fool. Here are the signs of a cheating spouse/lover...
They become distant, expect less, and no longer ask your input or opinion- This is the very first sign that someone is cheating, is when they suddenly become cold towards you without reasoning. They will not expect from you anymore, simply because he/she gets their needs fulfilled elsewhere now.
They leave the room to talk on the phone, or hang the call when you come by. He/she will minimize the internet browsers, and delete all of the internet history as well. The most obvious sign that your lover is cheating on you, is this, because cheaters cannot resist talking to their new 'mate' on the phone or online, so watch for this.
They argue with you and criticize you all the time, over the smallest of things, and especially more and more lately. Cheaters will argue to get out of being caught in a lie, and also just to storm out of the house and cheat for a few hours and come back. On top of this, they criticize you because they are comparing you to their newly found 'mate'.
They have lost interest in having sex with you- It is more than obvious that a cheater gets their sexual needs fulfilled elsewhere; which is exactly why they no longer have sexual interest in you. This is something almost every person who has been cheated on will say, is that this sign was prevalent over all other things: a sudden lack of sex in your relationship.
A Sure Shot Way To Track A Cheating Spouse- Do you know that there is a guaranteed and proven trick you can use to track a cheating spouse within seconds? This is so effective that it will bring out the truth within seconds and you will know what's really going on behind your back. This is one thing you shouldn't miss - Click Here
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jenny_Melbourne
They become distant, expect less, and no longer ask your input or opinion- This is the very first sign that someone is cheating, is when they suddenly become cold towards you without reasoning. They will not expect from you anymore, simply because he/she gets their needs fulfilled elsewhere now.
They leave the room to talk on the phone, or hang the call when you come by. He/she will minimize the internet browsers, and delete all of the internet history as well. The most obvious sign that your lover is cheating on you, is this, because cheaters cannot resist talking to their new 'mate' on the phone or online, so watch for this.
They argue with you and criticize you all the time, over the smallest of things, and especially more and more lately. Cheaters will argue to get out of being caught in a lie, and also just to storm out of the house and cheat for a few hours and come back. On top of this, they criticize you because they are comparing you to their newly found 'mate'.
They have lost interest in having sex with you- It is more than obvious that a cheater gets their sexual needs fulfilled elsewhere; which is exactly why they no longer have sexual interest in you. This is something almost every person who has been cheated on will say, is that this sign was prevalent over all other things: a sudden lack of sex in your relationship.
A Sure Shot Way To Track A Cheating Spouse- Do you know that there is a guaranteed and proven trick you can use to track a cheating spouse within seconds? This is so effective that it will bring out the truth within seconds and you will know what's really going on behind your back. This is one thing you shouldn't miss - Click Here
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jenny_Melbourne
is your lover cheating on you?
Have you ever wondered to yourself "am I being cheated on?"... Did you ever wish you knew how to catch a cheater, so that you can clear up all of your doubts? A cheating spouse or lover will never admit what they are doing behind your back, and he/she will try hard to cover up their dirty deeds. That is why it is critical for you to know the signs so that you are not played for a fool. Here are the signs of a cheating spouse/lover...
They become distant, expect less, and no longer ask your input or opinion- This is the very first sign that someone is cheating, is when they suddenly become cold towards you without reasoning. They will not expect from you anymore, simply because he/she gets their needs fulfilled elsewhere now.
They leave the room to talk on the phone, or hang the call when you come by. He/she will minimize the internet browsers, and delete all of the internet history as well. The most obvious sign that your lover is cheating on you, is this, because cheaters cannot resist talking to their new 'mate' on the phone or online, so watch for this.
They argue with you and criticize you all the time, over the smallest of things, and especially more and more lately. Cheaters will argue to get out of being caught in a lie, and also just to storm out of the house and cheat for a few hours and come back. On top of this, they criticize you because they are comparing you to their newly found 'mate'.
They have lost interest in having sex with you- It is more than obvious that a cheater gets their sexual needs fulfilled elsewhere; which is exactly why they no longer have sexual interest in you. This is something almost every person who has been cheated on will say, is that this sign was prevalent over all other things: a sudden lack of sex in your relationship.
A Sure Shot Way To Track A Cheating Spouse- Do you know that there is a guaranteed and proven trick you can use to track a cheating spouse within seconds? This is so effective that it will bring out the truth within seconds and you will know what's really going on behind your back. This is one thing you shouldn't miss - Click Here
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jenny_Melbourne
They become distant, expect less, and no longer ask your input or opinion- This is the very first sign that someone is cheating, is when they suddenly become cold towards you without reasoning. They will not expect from you anymore, simply because he/she gets their needs fulfilled elsewhere now.
They leave the room to talk on the phone, or hang the call when you come by. He/she will minimize the internet browsers, and delete all of the internet history as well. The most obvious sign that your lover is cheating on you, is this, because cheaters cannot resist talking to their new 'mate' on the phone or online, so watch for this.
They argue with you and criticize you all the time, over the smallest of things, and especially more and more lately. Cheaters will argue to get out of being caught in a lie, and also just to storm out of the house and cheat for a few hours and come back. On top of this, they criticize you because they are comparing you to their newly found 'mate'.
They have lost interest in having sex with you- It is more than obvious that a cheater gets their sexual needs fulfilled elsewhere; which is exactly why they no longer have sexual interest in you. This is something almost every person who has been cheated on will say, is that this sign was prevalent over all other things: a sudden lack of sex in your relationship.
A Sure Shot Way To Track A Cheating Spouse- Do you know that there is a guaranteed and proven trick you can use to track a cheating spouse within seconds? This is so effective that it will bring out the truth within seconds and you will know what's really going on behind your back. This is one thing you shouldn't miss - Click Here
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jenny_Melbourne
bust the cheader
A cheating spouse will not come up to you and say "I cheated, and this is how I did it...", nor will a lover openly admit to infidelity. That is why it is important that you never allow your trust to be overlooked or abused by thinking your partner will always be 100% loyal. The fact is that these days, most relationships end because of cheating, which is why you must know how to catch a cheating spouse or lover fast. Here is how you can catch a cheater fast...
Watch them online without them knowing- secretly install some spy ware program and it will record everything your partner types while online, without them even suspecting. You can then go back after and see all the emails and juicy chats that were sent behind your back.
Track their car when they go out- Get a GPS tracker or use the one you currently have (if you have one already) to watch their every move, at home! You can watch them online and see where they go when they leave the house, and then you will know for sure if they are really staying late at work, or are just actually sneaking around.
Find out who they talk to on the phone- Collect any suspicious numbers that you see on their phone, and enter it into a reverse phone lookup. That will tell you the name of the person who the number belongs to as well as the address. This comes as a bonus, because you can then match where they were from the GPS to the name of the person as well; which then tells you exactly if they are cheating or not.
A Sure Shot Way To Track A Cheating Spouse- Do you know that there is a guaranteed and proven trick you can use to track a cheating spouse within seconds? This is so effective that it will bring out the truth within seconds and you will know what's really going on behind your back. This is one thing you shouldn't miss
Watch them online without them knowing- secretly install some spy ware program and it will record everything your partner types while online, without them even suspecting. You can then go back after and see all the emails and juicy chats that were sent behind your back.
Track their car when they go out- Get a GPS tracker or use the one you currently have (if you have one already) to watch their every move, at home! You can watch them online and see where they go when they leave the house, and then you will know for sure if they are really staying late at work, or are just actually sneaking around.
Find out who they talk to on the phone- Collect any suspicious numbers that you see on their phone, and enter it into a reverse phone lookup. That will tell you the name of the person who the number belongs to as well as the address. This comes as a bonus, because you can then match where they were from the GPS to the name of the person as well; which then tells you exactly if they are cheating or not.
A Sure Shot Way To Track A Cheating Spouse- Do you know that there is a guaranteed and proven trick you can use to track a cheating spouse within seconds? This is so effective that it will bring out the truth within seconds and you will know what's really going on behind your back. This is one thing you shouldn't miss
the broken relationship
The effects of a breakup can be traumatizing, especially if you are the one who got dumped. If you find it difficult to live without you ex you ought it to yourself to make one last effort to win them back. You need to get your pieces together again and be prepared to play it dirty.
Here are 5 hardcore psychological tricks to win them back for good:
Act relieved: give them the impression that you are completely happy with the breakup. This will undermine your partner's confidence and hopefully will make him/her reconsider.
Keep your distance: just disappear! Make them wonder where you are and what you are doing. Make them think that you might have found a new love.
Reinvent yourself: this time period would be ideal in order to get a new haircut, buy some new clothes and lose a few pounds. Try to keep yourself busy. Start a new hobby, make some new friends and become a much more attractive and interesting person.
Spread the rumor that you are dating someone else: make sure that you "accidentally" mention to some mutual friends that you are dating again. This will make your ex extremely jealous. He/she won't be able to believe that you got over him/her so easily!
It's time for the final stroke: show up in places where you will find your ex, preferably with your new date. Try to look stunning and pretend to be very happy. This will cause them panic and make them realize that if they don't act fast, they might lose you forever.
These methods may be quite unorthodox, but your only other option would be to just sit around and wait for your ex to come back. Life is too short and you need to always go after what you want!
Now it's time to listen carefully: It will only take you a couple of minutes to Click Here and read the next page. There, you will discover a powerful technique that will help you win your ex back guaranteed! It would be a shame to lose your ex partner for ever by not visiting
Here are 5 hardcore psychological tricks to win them back for good:
Act relieved: give them the impression that you are completely happy with the breakup. This will undermine your partner's confidence and hopefully will make him/her reconsider.
Keep your distance: just disappear! Make them wonder where you are and what you are doing. Make them think that you might have found a new love.
Reinvent yourself: this time period would be ideal in order to get a new haircut, buy some new clothes and lose a few pounds. Try to keep yourself busy. Start a new hobby, make some new friends and become a much more attractive and interesting person.
Spread the rumor that you are dating someone else: make sure that you "accidentally" mention to some mutual friends that you are dating again. This will make your ex extremely jealous. He/she won't be able to believe that you got over him/her so easily!
It's time for the final stroke: show up in places where you will find your ex, preferably with your new date. Try to look stunning and pretend to be very happy. This will cause them panic and make them realize that if they don't act fast, they might lose you forever.
These methods may be quite unorthodox, but your only other option would be to just sit around and wait for your ex to come back. Life is too short and you need to always go after what you want!
Now it's time to listen carefully: It will only take you a couple of minutes to Click Here and read the next page. There, you will discover a powerful technique that will help you win your ex back guaranteed! It would be a shame to lose your ex partner for ever by not visiting
desire?
Your relationship with someone may have been an epic fail but that shouldn't be the end of it all. If you've gone through a very painful breakup episode with your lover, know that there is still hope. There is still hope that you can get him back and make things right. It's all a matter of how well you execute the steps on how to make your ex desire you.
Sure it's not an easy feat. But if you're willing to act upon it, there's a high probability that he'll come running back to your arms again. The first step is to take a breather. Give both of you some space to reflect and heal. Don't push things to the limit or else you'll find yourself at a point where there's no turning back. Allow time and nature to heal the wounds caused by this episode.
Go away and take some time to indulge in your passions in life. Enroll in karate class or spend your time painting. If you have a knack for writing songs, pour out your heart on it and write beautiful compositions. These steps will help you divert your attention for the mean time and naturally heal. When your ex finds out that you were doing something productive instead of wallowing in the corner of your room, he would actually find it admirable and endearing.
The next step on how to make your ex desire you is to slowly restore communication. By this time, you are probably ready to face him without breaking down. Talk with him casually, and ask if he's doing alright. Then take it from there. As you both walk into the path of restoration and forgiveness, you'd be surprise how love is indeed sweeter the second time around.
Now Here's the deal, Pay Close Attention,
On the next page you will discover some conventional and some very unconventional tricks to make your ex come begging you to take them back. These are a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. So If you want to know How To Get Ex Back then I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it is too late ==>
Sure it's not an easy feat. But if you're willing to act upon it, there's a high probability that he'll come running back to your arms again. The first step is to take a breather. Give both of you some space to reflect and heal. Don't push things to the limit or else you'll find yourself at a point where there's no turning back. Allow time and nature to heal the wounds caused by this episode.
Go away and take some time to indulge in your passions in life. Enroll in karate class or spend your time painting. If you have a knack for writing songs, pour out your heart on it and write beautiful compositions. These steps will help you divert your attention for the mean time and naturally heal. When your ex finds out that you were doing something productive instead of wallowing in the corner of your room, he would actually find it admirable and endearing.
The next step on how to make your ex desire you is to slowly restore communication. By this time, you are probably ready to face him without breaking down. Talk with him casually, and ask if he's doing alright. Then take it from there. As you both walk into the path of restoration and forgiveness, you'd be surprise how love is indeed sweeter the second time around.
Now Here's the deal, Pay Close Attention,
On the next page you will discover some conventional and some very unconventional tricks to make your ex come begging you to take them back. These are a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. So If you want to know How To Get Ex Back then I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it is too late ==>
4 steps of getting your ex back
When we lose something we love, we try very hard to get it back. It doesn't come back, and it also pushes us away. So what is 'it'? It is our ex! The real way to pull your ex back lies not in what you are supposed to do, but rather what you shouldn't do. Most of what you could do now, your ex has seen before and experienced with you and hates. Thus you must try a completely different approach to get your ex back...
Insulting and name calling- We all get to that point, where we are so frustrated that we then just insult our ex left, right and center. What happens is your ex will believe your actions don't match up to your words, because one minute you are saying you love them, but the next insulting- so just keep your cool.
Arguing and fighting- Arguments will only make you and your ex get your defenses up. As well, your ex will be driven to prove you wrong and find counter arguments; and then the past will be dragged up again only causing the same old things to happen again...you grow more apart. Agree with your ex instead and thank him/her for the breakup.
Bothering your ex- Bothering your ex means you are always calling him/her, text messaging or emailing. Whatever the case, your ex wants some space; and the more you call the more they will think you are desperate. Stop contacting your ex for at least 2 weeks.
Talking about your ex behind his/her back and to others- Whether you meant well or not, it always seems to come back to your ex that you can't get over them. Your ex only further gets frustrated, especially if you had said something out of frustration against your ex to others. Keep it to yourself for now.
Warning: Your Ex Is Very Near To Having Sex With Someone Else Soon... If you do not take action now, your ex will be lost forever to someone else! I am about to share with you the secret way to get your ex crawling back to you instantly; no matter how bad the situation is. No more ignoring, no more games; from this point on your life will never be the same. You don't want to miss this - Click Here
Insulting and name calling- We all get to that point, where we are so frustrated that we then just insult our ex left, right and center. What happens is your ex will believe your actions don't match up to your words, because one minute you are saying you love them, but the next insulting- so just keep your cool.
Arguing and fighting- Arguments will only make you and your ex get your defenses up. As well, your ex will be driven to prove you wrong and find counter arguments; and then the past will be dragged up again only causing the same old things to happen again...you grow more apart. Agree with your ex instead and thank him/her for the breakup.
Bothering your ex- Bothering your ex means you are always calling him/her, text messaging or emailing. Whatever the case, your ex wants some space; and the more you call the more they will think you are desperate. Stop contacting your ex for at least 2 weeks.
Talking about your ex behind his/her back and to others- Whether you meant well or not, it always seems to come back to your ex that you can't get over them. Your ex only further gets frustrated, especially if you had said something out of frustration against your ex to others. Keep it to yourself for now.
Warning: Your Ex Is Very Near To Having Sex With Someone Else Soon... If you do not take action now, your ex will be lost forever to someone else! I am about to share with you the secret way to get your ex crawling back to you instantly; no matter how bad the situation is. No more ignoring, no more games; from this point on your life will never be the same. You don't want to miss this - Click Here
Abonner på:
Opslag (Atom)